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    #1 Miss_Kendra, Feb 9, 2017
    So hi. I'm new here to the Mansion and to Chasity. I just wanted to try and meet some people and get a feel for it. I'm honestly just trying to learn what i can.

    So hi!
     
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    #2 thundar, Feb 9, 2017
    Welcome Miss Kendra. You will meet many varied and interesting people here and can learn much along the way. Good luck
     
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    #3 Nicoftime, Feb 9, 2017
    Hello and welcome!

    My keyholders @Mistress Amanté doesnt spend a lot of time here but she does check in from time to time.

    She was very new to all this as well and has settled in all too well. If you have any questions I'm sure you could ask her or any of the experienced women here that are more than helpful.

    Good luck.
     
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    #4 Miss_Kendra, Feb 10, 2017
    Thank you very much! I might get a hold of her.

     
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    #5 Steve-0, Feb 10, 2017
    Hi hi! Lots to learn and fun to be had.
    Don't be a stranger :)
     
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    #6 Miss_Kendra, Feb 10, 2017
    I am definitely not intersted in chastity for myself.
    Right now I'm just kind of gaining information and learning what i can to see what i woukd like
     
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    #7 Miss_Kendra, Feb 10, 2017
    Thank you very much! Everyone I have talked to so far has been very nice and very helpful
     
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    #8 Jbriton, Feb 10, 2017
    I'll share that one "surprise" I've learned is that there's a large group into sissification, pegging, CEI, and other humiliation and then there's a group that are more about FLR in a more emotional and dominant way but without going into a lot of kink. There's certainly lots of bleed over to blur the line but there are definitely two major different big picture motivations. The former tends to be in different makeup in relationship status between the two as well.
    This isn't a good vs bad or twisted vs mainstream. The point is make is that you will find a lot of variance and opinion on what chastity is for. Of course that includes lots of other aspects beyond those two.
    All of it is interesting to me but the emasculating part of the kink isn't something that appeals to me personally. To be clear, submission is not, to me, on a spectrum of sissification. It bears saying that a submissive needs to actually be a very emotionally if not intellectually powerful person. That is truly fascinating to me.
     
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    #9 smash363636, Feb 10, 2017
    welcome lots of great information here. feel free to ask anything.
     
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    #10 Miss_Kendra, Feb 10, 2017
    Thank you very much!
     
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    #11 Wendygirl, Feb 10, 2017
    I would prefer one happy family rather than separate groups as many activities run through several different chastity experiences.
    . Xx Wendy
     
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    #12 sissy Veronica, Feb 12, 2017
    Do you have chastity in mind for someone special?Do you know someone in chastity?Just curious
     
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    #13 DonnaSue, Feb 12, 2017
    Miss_Kendra, I suspect that as you read about all of the various chastity experiences of the ladies here on CM, you will begin to recognize just how much power you can have over men so very easily. Whether it's just locking him up in a cage and controlling his penis, going fully into an FLR or dominating him as a sissy, you deserve to enjoy all of the control that you can have - just by virtue of your femininity! Read, enjoy, and learn. I can relate to the men in your life and what the future holds for them!
     
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    #14 Miss_Kendra, Feb 12, 2017
    I do have someone in mind but I'm not sure how it will work out
     
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    #15 smash363636, Feb 12, 2017
    Please tell us more about who you give in mind and maby what kind of device your looking at
     
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    #16 Miss_Kendra, Feb 12, 2017
    I have a friend that is more of a sissy but wants to try chastity. I used to dominate him years ago when we dated but not in a while. I think chastity would be a good thing to try but it's a little strange for me since a lot of the stuff I've been reading involves the sub pleasuring the Domme sexually and that's not what we would be doing
     
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    #17 CagedAnimal2, Feb 12, 2017
    He's in for a helluva surprise!
     
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    #18 smash363636, Feb 12, 2017
    He could be submissive to you by driving you around, cleaning your home, things like that. Doesn't always have to be about sex
     
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    #19 smash363636, Feb 12, 2017
    You say jump he says how high
     
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    #20 Miss_Kendra, Feb 12, 2017
    But then i get kind of stuck on rewards and the like. I know verbal praise can be a big motivator but I'm unsure of what else
     
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    #21 smash363636, Feb 12, 2017
    I'm shure someone will give you the answer that helps you out. I'm sorry I unfortunately don't have it
     
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    #22 Miss_Kendra, Feb 12, 2017
    Oh I'm sure I'll figure it out. If not, we won't work out .
     
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    #23 Lockedwithlove, Feb 12, 2017
    Welcome!
     
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    #24 Miss_Kendra, Feb 12, 2017
    Thanks!
     
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    #25 Lockedwithlove, Feb 12, 2017
    @Miss_Kendra when first starting out I gave my wife a book titled Male Chastity "by Lucy Fairbourn" it was a nice subtle introduction for her and she enjoyed reading it. You can find it on Amazon and there are a ton of others as well. This forum is awesome as far as asking questions and getting feedback. I've never liked searching this forum though. It's kind of a library with most of the books on the floor but nevertheless it's a great place. There are several awesome Key holders here that are very helpful in sharing what they know. Good luck!
     
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