Is tease and denial the right message to be giving out?

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    #51 L-u-c-y, Nov 28, 2016
    I have 6 keys. I'ts not a service. I have a key for my parents house, I'm not providing a service. The "command centre" is my computer which I use for all kinds of things. And who says I sit there for hours a day?

    I know it's hard work to be a keyholder, you have conveniently ignored the comments of 2 of my subs on this thread. How do you think I have had 2 locked for over 450 days continuously without hard work? It helps if you put your brain in gear. And as for running a business, if I was doing that I wouldn't try to put off 99.99% of people, I would be teasing them all day. Think about it.

    I am all about giving, but I give to those who do not ask for anything, I like unselfish subs like those who have posted here.

    In the last 6 days I have used the power over my subs to raise £440 for cancer research, if I was running a business I would have told them to give it to me.
    I will use this opportunity to advertise it, thanks. https://www.justgiving.com/fundraising/L-u-c-y
     
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    #52 Jasmic68, Nov 28, 2016
    How about "Married Females who like to tease"? As you seem to think that anyone who fits that ideal is a waste of time.

    I never said you were a waste of time, I just said your version of chastity is not the same as mine and, it would appear, that of other married men who are members of the Mansion. It is you who are appearing to think we are a waste of space, not the other way around.

    As for smelling like a gents toilet as all of your sub's are virtual that is hardly going to be a problem for you. I don't know what gives you that idea though but, as your subs are virtual, it also means you don't have the same experience my Wife does.
     
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    #53 L-u-c-y, Nov 28, 2016
    I have not said that teasing is wrong, I said maybe young males are getting the idea that that is what chastity is all about.
     
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    #54 Jasmic68, Nov 28, 2016
    It was one of your sub's in their reply who said you communicate for hours a day. If I wasn't on my phone I would find the quote to help you but typing in a miniscule letterbox isn't very easy.
     
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    #55 LadyS, Nov 28, 2016
    IT IS A SERVICE no matter what you say. Holding 6 keys requires a lot of time. and you call your computers your goddess command centre. So whatever you say Lucy. You tell yourself whatever you need to to make yourself feel better.
    I would bet you receive a lot of gifts/$ money . Becuase No one on their right mind would provide these kind of services for nothing.
     
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    #56 LadyS, Nov 28, 2016
    I'll find it!!!
     
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    #57 L-u-c-y, Nov 28, 2016
    Sporadically communicating for hours is not the same as sitting at a computer for hours.
     
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    #58 Ganymede, Nov 28, 2016
    Given how few genuinely gendered females contribute to this site, I think we should support and be grateful to those we have.

    Miss Lucy is clearly an enthusiastic and experienced KH and sensual woman.

    She has my vote anytime.

    G.
     
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    #60 L-u-c-y, Nov 28, 2016
    Sporadically communicating for hours via phone/messages is not the same as sitting at a computer for hours.
     
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    #61 L-u-c-y, Nov 28, 2016
    30 August 2016

    On Friday, my most dedicated online slave reached 365 continuous days of being locked in chastity with no release. He has done this as a sign of his loyalty and devotion to me.

    I sent him a lock with no keys, which he received on 26th August 2015. This started out as a 4-week lockup, but he has offered to continue and now we have reached one year.

    he has not done this because he wants to be teased and denied, he has not done this because he wants to have ruined orgasms, he has not done this out of an interest in CBT, he has not done this for selfish sexual reasons. He has done this to prove his devotion. He has never asked me for anything, but those who do not ask receive more than those who do.

    We have never met but we have talked many times a day every day for the last year. He has always been a complete gentleman at all times. Many slaves claim they would do anything for their Mistress, but I know he means every word he says. We like to call him my slave but I have a huge amount of respect for him, being a slave does not make him a weak person. He has served in both the British army and the Metropolitan Police. Only a strong person could survive 365 days in chastity. I see him more like a loyal knight who get’s down on one knee and pledges his allegiance to his Queen.

    He is desperate for release, but he wants to beat someone else who has been locked with one of my locks for 8 days longer. I have said he can be released at any time, but he is committed to beating this other person. When he is finally released, he will be starting a new phase of being locked with one release every month.

    This is real chastity. it’s not a game or role play. I do not take this lightly, this is probably the biggest sacrifice anyone has ever made for me apart from my parents. Those who think an online relationship does not mean anything have not done it properly, the mind is more powerful than the body.

    I hope he will continue to be MY loyal slave for a long time to come.
     
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    #62 jemima, Nov 28, 2016
    please have some of them been send down the mine.
     
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    #63 L-u-c-y, Nov 28, 2016
    Not yet, I have to be voted into office first :)
     
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    #64 jemima, Nov 28, 2016
    oh yes, sorry. i forgot that.
     
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    #65 L-u-c-y, Nov 28, 2016
    That would be a bit misleading as there is hardly any on here compared to males.
     
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    #66 Ganymede, Nov 28, 2016
    The sooner the better...
     
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    #67 Jasmic68, Nov 28, 2016
    Can I reiterate that I am in no way anti-Lucy. She brought up the question about whether chastity means tease and denial, and whether young men are getting the wrong idea.

    The married men have answered pretty consistently that chastity means whatever you want it to be but our Wives definitely like teasing us.

    I can only apologise to Lucy that some idiot started abusing her. She doesn't deserve that. The men who are being kept chaste by her are definitely getting what they want and her style of chastity is perfect for them. It just wouldn't work for those of us with wives as key holders but it also isn't as simple as Lucy is trying to portray it. It isn't a one way activity and our wives are not teasing us just to keep us quiet.
     
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    #68 L-u-c-y, Nov 28, 2016
    I have not said that teasing is wrong, I said maybe young males are getting the idea that that is what chastity is all about.
     
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    #69 Jasmic68, Nov 28, 2016
    At least one of them has replied to you and the lack of females is as much to do with the abuse from idiots like you experienced as anything.
     
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    #70 L-u-c-y, Nov 28, 2016
    Yes I would agree with that.
     
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    #71 L-u-c-y, Nov 28, 2016
    To me chastity and teasing are 2 different things, but these young males get the idea that one does not exist without the other. That was my point. Thanks for the personal attacks though.
     
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    #72 Ikneelbeforeher, Nov 28, 2016
    It is noticeable that the ones abusing haven't answered the comment about the charity donations or the comments from those who serve Mistress Lucy.
    Why can't people just be kind and ignore the things they don't like.
    We are after all adults
     
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    #73 Steve-0, Nov 28, 2016
    Well isn't that how this all started? By Lucy going off about how we all don't practice proper chastity and it's cramping her style? If we all "ignored things we don't" like this thread wouldn't exist!
     
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    #74 LadyS, Nov 28, 2016
    Freedoms of speech is wonderful.
     
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    #75 Manalba, Nov 28, 2016
    If you are referring me, I'm not trying to abuse anyone.
    If you personally are happy with the relationship you are having with Mistress Lucy that's fine.
    All I'm trying to point out is that Mistress Lucys' expectations obviously don't match everyone elses'.
    If many devotees drop out relatively quickly, a simple explanation is that they are not receiving whatever it was they expected to receive. Or, if it is their first experience of being keyheld, they realise it is not for them at all.

    Donations to charity have no relevance to the threads' OP. Nor would a fondness for kicking puppies in the face.
     
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