I'm curious. My present locked chastity period will be 120 days on Labor Day. When I persuaded Ms. K/H to be my keyholder, I was curious how long I could go without an orgasm I counted up and today made 158 days pretty much locked 24/7 with an occasional release for cleaning and maintenance and only one orgasm which she coerced and giggled over her making me masturbate while she watched. I was locked back up immediately and have been locked 24/7 except for changing from the CB6000 to the 6000s cage, then the two smaller stainless steel devices. SO my real questions are: What do you (Locked and Key-Holders) consider "Long-Term" chastity? And do you still count it as Long-Term if you are or your K/H allows you an occasional orgasm, ruined or not, or do you start counting up the new period? Before actually buying our first commercially available chastity device, I expected that I would go nuts after a week. Once locked, it didn't take long for me to find myself feeling naked without one of them locked on. Please, I would love to hear from both those locked and their Key-Holders. Jamie
When I think "long-term chastity" I think "long-term device wear." Long-term orgasm denial is a different thing in my mind, I'm not really sure why. For me, periods between sex that includes orgasm are about 3-4 weeks but I consider myself being in long-term chastity because I wear a device indefinitely and my sexual being is controlled by my wife, not me. So I guess my idea of not-long-term is more of a mindset than a length of time. I think of it as being the difference between negotiated set amounts of time and the choice to live this as a lifestyle, ceding one's entire sexual self to another.
Interesting points, since so many match mine. I did 43 days locked then Ms. K/H ordered me to masturbate while she watched. I was locked back in immediately. I'm at day 117 restarted with releases to change from the CB6Ks to the two different stainless steel devices. I was allowed out to put the little Houdini's back in their place before going to a smaller base ring. I'm apparently into what I call Long Term meaning to me that I'm going pretty much 24/7/365 at Ms. K/H's whims. Labor day will make 120 days this time. No clue if that means anything to her. SO, by some definition I'm presently pulling 160 days with one orgasm. I love a hectic, uncertain future when it's along these lines.
Long term to me would be actually in chastity. That doesn't count taking it off to clean. We've done 1 week so far, but we don't have a 24/7/365 device yet. But once you orgasm, that starts the chastity counter all over again.
#Mascara^Snake, Ms Amanda, I understand that there are no rules. Ms. K/H has made that abundantly clear to me. Her rules are arbitrary and quite open to sudden changes which keeps things interesting. I'm not looking for any sort of hard , fast or exact explanations or definitions. I'm just interested in an over all feel toward the idea. Quite personally, based on Ms. K/H demeanor and attitude, I've already accepted that I'm in long-term chastity if not permanent. Jamie
I know for a fact that Monday makes 120 days but it's getting harder for me to keep track. I suppose I'll eventually lose track and simply have to ask, "Please, Mistress, am I ever getting out?" Then stand wondering if and expecting the hard word, "NO!"
In my opinion long term is more than 6 months, no orgasm, only released for cleaning or special activity. But definantly no orgasm. An orgasm restarts the clock. I am to be orgasm free for a minimum of the next 7 years. Which can be extended on KH's choosing.
To each their own, but consider myself in long term wear. It comes off for cleaning, playing or just plain teasing, but goes back in. It's expected to go back in, and the only times out as listed above are at her discretion. Notice I use the word chastity wear, and not abstinence, or chastity. I am not orgasm, sex, or pleasure free, But 99% of the life I lead, I am sexually unable to be erect or touch my penis. I myself consider that to be long term wear. I don't consider it to be long term chastity. Waiting for my piercing to heal, I have realized such a difference between wearing a device and not.
I was released just last week after a little over 6 months in my Jailbird, 24/7 no releases, I will be free until I commit to a new contract maybe sometime soon , my K/H is Goddess Felicity of Leicester UK and She decides in my case how long the sentence is to be.
Definitely a big difference between how long locked up . How long since you were out at all and how much sex teasing and stuff . So I would take it as the device not coming off at all as the gold standard. Off for 10 minutes wash and brush up no fiddly business kinda 18 carat. Off every few days plenty teasing spoilt climaxes ect bronze ! Sorry guys. Xx Wendy
Really didn't do anything. She likes it better when I don't have one. So we decided to go long term at a minimum of one year and a maximum of ten. Random calendar generation and got the date. She keeps saying that it's so nice not allowing me to have one that she might decide I never get one again. Which I am fine with. We still have sex. Just by sex I mean I service her with toys and oral, and then I get pegged. If I am milked from the pegging then great, if not, it will happen another time when my body chooses to release. It's not always easy and I am ALWAYS super horny, but I am to the place I enjoy her orgasms and the pegging she gives me. Who knows after several years, I may learn to orgasm through my ass and not the traditional way.