hello, I am 24 years old and excited to be here at chastity mansion! Recently I have found locking myself up to be quite some fun. I am a virgin and very straight yet being controlled by a woman turns me on... One of my biggest fantasies is being Locked in chastity by a woman and told that I might not ever be able to experience sex at all... That I missed my opportunity... This is so strange I know, but I have to get it off my chest. I'm an attractive guy, yet I guess I want to lose control? Not sure, but maybe I just need a mistress to talk/cam with me and help me figure this out. any thoughts? any other virgins have masochistic thoughts? I think sometimes I dare to see just how cruel a woman can be to my cock
Welcome! I have talked to many virgins at the Chastity Social who share those fantasies, you are not alone! Lots of experienced chastity folks also had thoughts like that before they became experienced too. Fun fantasies!
Actually, it looks as though it is growing out of your shirt. lol, but other than that, nothing special.
That's not a shirt. They're ugly Bermuda shorts or golfer's pants. Think Rodney Dangerfield in Caddyshack.
haha Mistress B they are my boxers or otherwise known as underwear. cageme was close! It is sticking through the flap lol
LOL. Looks like yours has more breathing room than mine does. Very close quarters here. Meant to keep me in line! Even had to ice down last night. It got a little too happy for some reason. Lol
Well to be honest, mostly I find the penis cage avatars to be a little tedious . Sometimes there are so many on the page I can almost smell them. Blech. It can give one the feeling of partaking in a penis worship site rather than a chastity site. It's enough to put off any new potential female members with an interest and limited understanding of chastity.
Thank you mascara! that is very enlightening. I'm having second thoughts actually and I already knew this but if its more effort to get women into it then... its clearly not natural haha. I may not be staying.
Don't be put off by the odd venomous comment.You'll find a lot of helpful and interesting people here,more than anywhere else.
I've not seen much in the way of venom to be honest, well, apart from the obvious spat recently. As for penis avatars, I understand that when we sign up there is generally one obvious thing to use as an avatar, and it has some obvious relevance, but as Mascara points out, it's quite true that one caged ding looks much like another, and they're not very pretty in the first place. In fact I wonder that so many people use them seeing as it's the one part of our bodies that most of us here are so keen to subjugate, and so it would seem odd to use them as our personal window dressing. Why not find something more personal to you or your partner or your relationship with chastity etc? My apologies for side tracking, and I understand there is a thread precisely about this elsewhere, so I'll finish here by bidding you welcome! Stick around, join in, make friends. Btw, from the look of it, it's unlikely that you'll find anyone who'd want to play with it, so it's a good job you've locked it away! x Verity
i don't understand this nonsense over avatars mine is of me to show that i am really locked some of the other imagery is of what? or of whom? Its more important to have an album
Welcome to the Mansion MrBlue200. Seeing that you are quite young, do stick around and learn about chastity. There is so much more to chastity than you might think. In regards to the captioned pic you posted, since you say your a virgin, I think it would be much more cruel to take your virginity and then lock your little fella away. To know what PIV is like and how it feels and then not know if and or when you might be allowed to have intercourse again would be mind boggling.
Thanks xcited, Yeah that really would be mind boggling and thats what I think turns me on in that respect. However, I do get action and have had many girlfriends in the past. Even had opportunities to have sex, but decided to just enjoy each other in other ways and hold off on the intercourse part. Bottom line: A: It somewhat excites me some to be caged yes, but as I said earlier it is not natural and takes some convincing to any female involved. They naturally want to have sex so I think I want to hold on to my manliness and let my manhood run free. I mean, its not that I don't have self control lol I've proved that. B: After thinking about if I had a full and healthy chastity relationship with a woman it'd be a little too forced / one sided to me. Maybe I am wrong, but what I am looking for is a relationship where I can serve my wife naturally and also if our moods are both in good spirits I can also fuck her hehe also works the other way, she can surprise/serve me when I need it. Anyway, thank you all for your thoughts and comments!
maybe fuck isnt the right word either, because I really am a romantic when it comes down to it. That connection where I woo her and make her want me as much as I want her is the chase I live for I think