I had surgery last week, at my insistence, which will make our sex life better in the long run. I had my tubes removed (no more babies!) and made it so I’ll have no more periods (so no interruption in play due to my period) …but unfortunately I am on pelvic rest (no orgasms!!!) until given the all clear by my doctor! Now what really sucks, is that my drive has come back with a vengeance 6 days post-op, but anything we do turns me on! It can be something as simple as yanking my boy’s head back to kiss him and I just want to maul him in such a bad way. Has any other ladies here had pelvic surgery and was unable to have orgasms? How did you work past it until given the all clear? Boys, I know I’m preaching to the choir, but even so, I am a keyholder to a very naughty husband and I just want him to be able to give me my much needed orgasms - and I know he’s craving it so bad, too!
I’d say savor this time and remember what it feels like so that when you’re denying him in chastity, you know exactly what he’s feeling and what emotions and endorphins are going through him. Let this build up of all the things you want to do explode on him when the time comes and let it all out all at once and then, do it again. Hope this helps.
I was already thinking something similar. I told him once I’m cleared, it’ll be like throwing gasoline on a fire
I think this might interest my wife, though perhaps for different reasons. ToM and concern at menopause starting anyway. Are their other reasons and benefits? Articles you were looking at when you were planning it perhaps? That may be helpful. There seem to be varied degrees of hysterectomy, I Imagine there is a difficult choice. Thanks.
if you only had your tubes removed you will still have periods. to stop periods before their time you have to remove the ovaries or uterus. i had a c section and the doctor said no sex for 4-6 weeks but i made it a week and all was/is well. i have a catholic friend who after her second child had her tubes tied and had a child 3 years later. so she had her tubes removed and insisted he get a vasectomy before sex. 5 years later she had another child. she now has the stick in her arm and hubby had another vasectomy. i wonder when she will have her fifth child.
I appreciate the irony of the gal in charge being denied (what an evil doctor this must be!). That said, I wish you a quick and full recovery! And as a guy occasionally enjoying chastity, I wish your man the enjoyment of you multiplying your sentence by a fair but just amount.
I had an endometrial ablation as well, which eliminates periods since it burns the uterine lining off and replaced it with scar tissue.