and I'm okay with that! Been member for some time reading forums and posts, learning as much as I can about the world of key holders. I was really nervous and unsure of myself, but @Lann was patient as I went at my own pace, getting comfortable with the role. My subsband and I got our first chastity device in December. We mostly toyed with it on the odd weekend here and there. As I got used to the role, i enjoyed it more and more. A week ago I decided to take a leap of faith and jump right in, taking control and he's been locked for a week today! My playboy has been very good so far It's amazing how different we both are since we started this journey and i'm looking forward to seeing where this goes...cause this is us now. I'm looking forward to learning more, getting advice and getting to know the community. ~WickedAngel
Welcome milady! I'm sure you'll learn more and get good answers to any questions you might have! I can't wait to see how you want this to go too!
Excellent! Well done to you both, and I hope you continue to enjoy your mutual exploration of this fascinating territory.
Welcome @WickedAngel . From what I have read I think he is very fond of you lol. It is great to have you. To all of our couples are very special. You get an insight to both sides that makes this place so special. You give all of us a chance to see how you move along and how much you want to torture him, sorry just kidding, maybe. It is a honor to welcome both of you look forward to sharing all of our special moments together as we journey forward in our quest for the unknown. As you said "Perhaps I'm liking this to much." This is going to be great. With all respect milady. So beautiful, really not kidding.
PS. I know we like having fun. There is also a very personal side of this kind of relationship. The depth that can be revealed when someone really gives themselves to someone else is amazing. I'm not crazy, just want to say there are many paths that others take and the right one is the one you take. We have been together 42 years. We have two boys, and two grand daughters in Colorado. Chastity started 6.5 years ago and has grown into something wonderful for us. I wanted to show Her that there would never be anyone but Her. A year ago she came up with Her own plan. Just wanted to say I am liking this to much. We are on vacation in Maine and I has been wonderful just being with Her. My wish is that you grow closer together as you go forward and @Lann will find what I have found to be a place of total contentment.
This week has shown me that this is way WAY more than a kink. Its life changing really. I couldn't be happier. And Milady can like this all she wants. The more she likes it, the happier I am And i'm so very very happy now
With many it starts as a kink, then it changes into a routine and then your life's direction is focused on someone other than yourself. It is no longer just a kink. You both learn what it is like to go beyond, 'wow that was great', to I just want to please you. It goes both ways. Very happy for you both. I'll be watching.