Hello, I'm Nebiyam, 25 man from Poland. I recently got introduced to chastity by my GF Sarah. She's 21, we dont live together, been with each other copule months now. She said it'd make her happy to have me locked in that thing. She bought the cage, showed it to me and asked if we coiuld try it on. We started with only few hours about a month ago. At first it was very strange, i never realized how many times a day i get aroused. Then she asked if could wear it to sleep - no sex that night, she wanted me locked. It was hard to sleep that night I woke up couple times, waking up Sarah as well. Every time she asked me to stay in it it it's not too much. She promised to reward me, and She did ... the next night. In the morning She didnt even mention the cage, and when I asked about unlock, She said i could wait until evening! It was on for almost 24 hours and it was frustrating! But She rewarded me nicely with a long, great blowjob. I was locked for about 24 hours couple more times since then, but today She asked if i can go whole weekend locked. Again, She promised to reward me nicely ... She took the key and left about 6 hours ago, and wont be back until Monday. Whish me luck!
Thank you! I'm Joel, and I'm new to this whole idea of a male chastity belt. My girlfriend and I are just beginning a FLR relationship, and we are going to order a cherry keeper chastity device., but I had to order the sizing rings and are waiting for them to be delivered so I can order the device. Are there any comments/suggestions for when my girlfriend first puts the cherry keeper on?
thanks for all the replies. first night gone, woke up couple times because of the cage. Two nights ahead, i really hope she rewards me for it as she promised
Welcome Nebiyan, you're lucky to have a girlfriend introducing chastity to you, because it's usually the guys introducing it to the ladies. I hope you grow to like it and give it a go for longer stretches because the reward really kicks in after about a week or so. What you probably don't know is that every time a man cums, he enters a "refractory period" which is a bit of a downer, so going without an orgasm for a while leaves you in a type of "happy space" where you're longing for one, and you feel a tingly sensation down below because you're overdue and you've got this thing attached to your junk, but I gotta tell you, it does become addictive. if you go for, let's say, two weeks locked up, and you have an orgasm once you're released, you will feel a certain "come down" afterwards known as the "drop". That might be enough to convince you to try an even longer stretch. Your GF is obviously into it, so the more you get into it too, the more she'll be into you, so win-win my friend!
Good luck your girlfriend really likes it is very obvious and training you well. Worse part is always the sleep
yes it is tough to sleep while locked. I didn't realize how many times i get hard during the night. Little update: somehow i managed to go during last weekend and Sarah rewarded me with an incredible blowjob. I waited quite a while for it, it felt really amazing. Since then She locked me for shorter periods, no more than a day at time. Last night was the first when we slept together while I was locked ... I didn't get too much sleep. I woke up couple times, waking up Sarah as well. She cuddled me every time I woke up, making things even worse down there. She said it feels very erotic keeping me locked - it's like we're having sex all night, even tough I was locked all the time. She just left my place and I'll stay locked until the evening ... hopefully not longer
It sounds like your girlfriend Sarah is well informed about male chastity and knows what she's doing! You lucky man.
Wow, still so young but she gets it! It would be interesting to know how Sarah found out about male chastity. Maybe you could persuade her to join CM.
@Nebiyam, have either of you heard of "ruined orgasms" yet? If not, don't be thrown off by the name as it's a terrible name for them, but basically, if she's giving you a hand job or blow job, you need to let her know when you're close to coming, and once you know it's past the point of no return, quickly tell her to stop, then when you do cum, it doesn't count as a full orgasm, it's called "ruined" and the reason that you do it is, you don't go into the "refractory period", so you're still the same happy guy that pays attention to your woman that you were when you were denied, so it's like a "freebie". Your girlfriend obviously knows a thing or two about chastity, which is amazing for a 21 year old, so she probably knows that a denied man is a better man, as men are generally better creatures when they're not allowed to cum, but ruined O's don't count, so you can have as many of them as you like without ruining the chastity high.
It might be true. I don't know what to feel about it. It's super frustrating being locked, it's super cool when she makes me cum after unlock
Honestly, super lucky to find a woman that’s already into chastity and knows what she wants. Enjoy the ride!