What things do you most enjoy that your partner,sub, hubby, boyfriend does for you. I love evenings when he runs my a candle lit bubble bath, with A glass of my favourite wine to sip as I relax But what makes it even more special is when he come in and serenades me with his guitar. He’s always trying to impress me.
Wow very attentive, I think if I tried the guitar, I’d certainly have the opposite effect of trying to impress, I’d most likely have the guitar impressed upon my back and ass
You could always read a few pages from her favourite book or a poem or two play her favourite song album safely nearby
My favorite things my sub does for me? That's a long list. There's more than I wrote down, but these things are major for me. * First is him giving me a daily massage, which has helped me not need reuma medicine in a year. That's really quite impressive. And it's so relaxing and gorgeous * Second is him letting me handle the finances, and decide our outings. If we do something fun I get to decide what it is, and he almost never objects. He also gives me free reign of the finances, which considering that I am a homemaker and he works, is quite an honor in my eyes. I feel very loved and trusted by being given this freedom. * Due to my disablities, I can't always do physical things. He always does them for me, without complaint. It feels very loving. * He too does things like run me a bath with candles lit and incense on, which I really love. He definitely pampers me in many ways, and it feels great.
My boyfriend is an artist. So sometimes he does my manicure and pedicure. And here we girls make mehndi in hands(sometimes on legs too) of which he makes very good designs. Because of all these skills I find myself very lucky.
Just the other night I was enjoying some jam time and @MrsBR_Saiph joined me. She sat 'above me' on a cushioned bar stool I keep in my music room just for her. I sat on my playing stool, music splayed out on the crate in front of me and continued with my strumming. Her scrolling through messages from buff attractive men, us discussing our upcoming meeting with the new guy, strings vibrating in erotic synchronicity to the sensual tension we both feel. Damn it's hot. She's hot. Music often says it better than words ever could. Looks like you had an amazing evening together, right on...!
Quick Question, if you husband set this up for you and you didn't know about it... Would you participate even if you were not interested?
Now this looks like O/our type of Femdom! It really is those little things that make an FLR so gratifying.
Love when he plays for me, the singing leaves a little to be desired but the guitar is nice. All that being said there is nothing quite like when he writes me a story. For those of you that know his writing you may understand what I mean. Love when he writes me a sexy story.
I think she would say the little things. Being aware in the moment and looking for extra things I can do for her - without being intrusive. I already do the major lifting by default. It’s 4am. She is awake and is having trouble sleeping. I give her a back rub until she falls asleep. I make sure she always has a warm bed at night, including her sleep shirt. I warm her bath towels for after her shower. I send her flowers for no reason. I leave her notes. I make a light happy hour snack paired with a good wine each evening. I bring her a cold drink and a snack when she is in the hammock reading. Her favorite is a hot oil massage in front of the fireplace with candles and soft massage music. I like to provide little, unexpected joys.
What a beautiful time to share. I hope he bathed you too. The guitar serenade is a nice touch. But I'd use a strap and play it properly on my knees. ; )
I am learning the art of massage. When the local community college opens back up, I plan to take some classes. Until then, YouTube and practice, practice, practice. She had two Os after her massage tonight so I'm patting myself on the back. She said my Tuesday unlock has been rescheduled to Thursday but the month is TBD. Oh-ohhhh!