Hello everyone, I am very new to chastity. I am married and am the Dom in a D/s marriage. Through a series of medical conditions I had lost all ability to feel passion and desire and then 2 years ago ended up getting TRT therapy. This led to a sudden re-emergence of intense feelings that unfortunately, rather than pointing at my wife/sub turned in to a porn and masturbation addiction. This itself began to draw me away from my submissive and my focus often fell on Just masturbation. Because of some travel, I went several days with no masturbation and realized that my desire for my wife had suddenly spiked. With some extreme frustration I was then able to go several days again and continued to notice a huge difference. I know that many people connect chastity with submissiveness, but I feel it could benefit me greatly in my Dominance as well. I am just here looking for advice and to connect with others attempting control. In a way, this is self enforced chastity for me though I have sought others to help hold myself accountable.
There are several very vocal men on here who do not identify as submissive but who do find chastity an integral part of their lives. Also, there's a fair amount of technical discussion about fit and adjustments, so hopefully you'll find threads that suit you here. Welcome to the Mansion!