So after a few false starts we decide to give it another go. After reading an article that had been posted on the forum it was decided to do a 3 month trail period were I would be locked 24/7 and only allowed out for cleaning and if any health issues came up, I wasn't allowed to be asked to be released and couldn't talk and it unless my K/H asked, at the same time she wasn't allowed to cave in and release me. The other night she mentioned I only had 5 weeks left and I said she will have to make a decision if she wanted to continue and in what capacity. To my surprise she said she has already decided and doesn't see the point in doing it part time, it's all or nothing. So I am now going to continue to be locked 24/7 and only allowed out for cleaning and as and when she decides to let me out, not allowed to ask. Mixed emotions but over all very happy.
I am also a kind of "all or nothing" type but at the end of the day, KH's wishes and needs are the ultimate reference. The most important thing is that it's not the encaged's choice. God luck, keep us posted pp.
Another member of the permanent club. How is she getting her sexual pleasure? And what are those mixed emotions you're having?
My wife was fairly similar when we began. I had thought it would be more like a few weeks on a few weeks off, or whenever she felt like driving me crazy. She said, either I’m in control or I’m not. So I stay locked until she unlocks me, could be a week, could be 6 months, I really don’t know when the mood will strike her. This lifestyle was definitely an all or nothing activity for her.
Tongue, fingers and toys. She loves the 8" dildo. Getting a strap on has been mentioned. Still getting used to not been able to have an erection or being able to cum when I want to, but I do love being locked up so it's worth it in the end.
I totally understand. Has she allowed you to orgasm in your cage at all? Or is she giving you any other sort of relief to clean the plumbing?
That's exactly how Mrs Chaste feels. Just over 8 years now. She is away with our daughter this week and I'm at home safely locked away!
Nothing since Aug 13th as per the rules, not allowed any sort of release for another 4 weeks. She keeps saying there is no guarantee I will be allowed any sort of release then either, I'm hoping so is just teasing me
Congratulations on your decision. It does sound like it works for the both of you. Being held like that, is a special feeling and not knowing if or when you may cum only makes it better. Good luck and enjoy.
Erections are the most difficult for me to adjust to since I've been caged. I have thought about offering her cash to unlock me for a 10 minute erection in the morning.
No release of any kind since August 3rd, and have been locked up since August 22nd. It is already a record for me. This morning Miss told me she isn't sure if I will get out at the end of the month, or go straight through NOvember.
We went in all or nothing as well. She decided that, if we were to do this, there would be no more PIV(which she hadn't really enjoyed in several years). The was 5 years ago, and it's truly become a lifestyle, which we still love. It has evolved into a full FLR. She controls our finances and our social lives. When I'm not at work(I'm semi-retired), I'm her little house-husband. And she controls our sex life. I pleasure her most nights with my mouth/hands/toys. I haven't cum or had an unlocked erection in 2 years. I can barely even get hard in my cage anymore, which gives us both an admittedly perverse pleasure. We are both very happy with our lives now.
She hasn't said there won't be any more PIV but has said she doesn't see the point of letting me out to have sex with her I'll probably cum to quickly to satisfy her. I'm pretty sure she is just teasing me, I hope. She has mentioned having me doing chores around the place naked but has actually discussed it in detail yet. It's the 5 in the morning erection that is the worst, wakes me up every time, I'm a bit of a grower from 2" flaccid to just under 6" hard and the cage is only 30mm inside length. Last night was the first time I was able to just turn over and go back to sleep.
Nothing would stop her from accepting the cash and still say NO! Keyholder’s game, Keyholder’s rules.
Good luck! And, BION, most of us who go down the road of "permanent" chastity not only dont regret it, but think its greatest turn on they've aver experienced. For me, it's right up there with impregnating my beautiful wife (and future keyholder) with each of our 6 children. We love it! And now it's all about my not being able to inseminate her, LOL!