So after a few false starts we decide to give it another go. After reading an article that had been posted on the forum it was decided to do a 3 month trail period were I would be locked 24/7 and only allowed out for cleaning and if any health issues came up, I wasn't allowed to be asked to be released and couldn't talk and it unless my K/H asked, at the same time she wasn't allowed to cave in and release me. The other night she mentioned I only had 5 weeks left and I said she will have to make a decision if she wanted to continue and in what capacity. To my surprise she said she has already decided and doesn't see the point in doing it part time, it's all or nothing. So I am now going to continue to be locked 24/7 and only allowed out for cleaning and as and when she decides to let me out, not allowed to ask. Mixed emotions but over all very happy.