HouseboyForHer
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Nerd Techy with lots of Math

HouseboyForHer

Long term member, Male, from U.S.

Looks like Ishtar & Brute once again has a variety of colors to choose from. Apr 16, 2024 at 3:01 PM

HouseboyForHer was last seen:
Apr 20, 2024 at 4:12 PM
    1. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      Looks like Ishtar & Brute once again has a variety of colors to choose from.
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    2. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      Whoops, 30 months of orgasm-free living snuck up on me. Done. Well, off to the second half of year three. I deserve it.
      Rectrix likes this.
    3. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      We just said goodbye for a 10-day stretch apart. I am locked with no key. She forgot to give me it. Perfect - locked w/o a key.
      Rectrix likes this.
    4. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      Whoops, 900 days sans orgasm snuck by me. Well, on to the next milestone: 30 months, in 10 days.
      Rectrix and Rubber Frosty like this.
    5. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      Unlocked for another night. Again, She apologized. So fucking horny. So what?.I mean: isn’t being so fucking horny a wonderful thing?
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    6. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      Told to unlock yesterday. "Promised" a blow-job which didn't happen. She apologized. That's okay, I love Her so much. I don't need a BJ.
      Rectrix likes this.
      1. Rectrix
        Rectrix
        But it would be nice, I imagine, having no actual experience.
        Mar 31, 2024
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      2. HouseboyForHer
        HouseboyForHer
        It's not at all nice. It's harrowing, fearing I won't get an erection. And then the negative voices start... Self-fulfilling. And yet here I sit, unlocked, and I could get an erection if I wanted to. But when She blows me? Unlikely. That's how fucked up I am.
        Mar 31, 2024
    7. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      Since I'm a temporary bachelor, I have the key. Which means I can swap for the inverted cage and enjoy the depravity and humiliation.
      TomT, Rectrix and ladiestoy like this.
      1. ladiestoy
        ladiestoy
        love all the pics of your inverted cage
        Mar 16, 2024
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    8. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      29 months in the books. How time doesn't fly when you're this horny all the time.
      Rectrix likes this.
    9. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      I was blessed to spend a very hard, miserable hour-plus in the tiny trunk of my Wife's sports car. Truly miserable. Just as it should be.
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      2. PornAddict103
        PornAddict103
        I'm an old-school NY-er and "guy in trunk" commonly was referred to "dead guy in boss's trunk waiting to be disposed of" That's why I reacted the way I did.
        Mar 12, 2024
      3. PornAddict103
        PornAddict103
        That's the old-school guy in me... I know things change over time, like meanings do too... I'm still getting used to "modern slang" and "rural vocabulary", so please bare with me.
        Mar 12, 2024
      4. HouseboyForHer
        HouseboyForHer
        That was my guess, but I believe I’m still alive. but I meant it literally. I really do spend long stretches stuffed into the trunk of my Wife’s little sports car. I can barely move. I’m submissive and masochistic, and my souls needs this sort of bondage. Peace!!
        Mar 12, 2024
    10. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      It's the last day of January, and I have been 100% locked the entire month (plus more). Will I be unlocked tonight? She is hinting yes.
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      1. corsac
        corsac
        Good luck!
        Jan 31, 2024
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    11. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      Wife and friends party to American Football playoffs while I, sober, do dishes and laundry.
      Rectrix and asastype like this.
    12. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      It's Jan 21. 10+ days to go and I will have been locked for the entire month - not one second unlocked. Place your bets.
      Rectrix likes this.
    13. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      Today marks 27 months, or 2.25 years, orgasm-free.
      MaggotNub and Butt boi like this.
    14. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      Well, She teased the heck out of me yesterday. Stuck in my cage, I suffered for a good 20 minutes, trying to rip my balls off. Success!
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      2. HouseboyForHer
        HouseboyForHer
        Har har! Can't wear a cage with no balls, now, can I?

        My Wife is not naturally a tease, and also somewhat absent-minded. She is also suffering from female-surgery-based low libido. /P1
        Jan 5, 2024
      3. HouseboyForHer
        HouseboyForHer
        Hence our chastity lifestyle is much more about my commitment to stop masturbating than it is about getting us both hot and bothered and wanting to fuck. I can go a week or more with Her having essentially no reaction to seeing the cage, much less saying anything or teasing me. She doesn't mind at all that I am denied for years because basically She's not into sex, and I don't pester her. /P2
        Jan 5, 2024
      4. HouseboyForHer
        HouseboyForHer
        So "success" was getting a full-blown tease, which She did quite well. P3/3
        Jan 5, 2024
    15. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      Today's a travel day. Which means I'll be unlocked. I wish that weren't necessary. I dislike the honor system and my cage makes me feel safe
    16. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      I received quite a beating last night. My offense? She gave me blowjobs and I failed to erect. Later I was grumpy & called myself a failure.
      Rectrix likes this.
      1. Rectrix
        Rectrix
        That's terrific! We deserve to be punished when when we can't satisfy our wife or when she tries to have sex and we fail her. You should thank her for trying and thank her for caring.
        Nov 22, 2023
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      2. HouseboyForHer
        HouseboyForHer
        Thank you for your comment! I agree, 100%. I did thank Her sincerely right after the paddling.
        Nov 23, 2023
      3. littleguy3
        littleguy3
        That's brutal on all fronts!
        Nov 28, 2023
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    17. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      My Wife got to play with my bladder-induced rock-hard erection overnight. She professes to like that. I am glad for us both.
      Rectrix likes this.
    18. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      She let me out. She game me a blowjob. I was limp as a rag. I am so fucked up. No wonder I love my cage. Loser.
      Rectrix likes this.
      1. Rectrix
        Rectrix
        Sorry to hear that; at least she tried and you got some intimacy. Maybe you could give to her instead.
        Nov 21, 2023
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      2. HouseboyForHer
        HouseboyForHer
        Thanks! I did (140 char limit.) and I will again today.
        Nov 21, 2023
    19. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      Hate the honor system? I have PSA test in 6 days. Doc says no orgasms the entire week prior. That's as good as a P.A.!!
    20. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      The honor system sucks. We all know I need a P.A.
    21. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      Tried, failed One bladder-induced, unconscious, eight-out-of-ten erection. That will have to do - on the honor system for a week.
      1. Rectrix
        Rectrix
        Honor system is disturbing and confusing, reawakens false thoughts of masculinity and past patterns of selfish abuse. Hope you do better. Glad she tried though.
        Nov 5, 2023
    22. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      Erection? No. She needed me 2 do 2 many tasks. I wish I could say it was Her dominating. No, just priorities. She say: 2nite 4 sure. Maybe.
      Rectrix likes this.
    23. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      Yesterday: "I've requested an erection later today. It's been tentatively granted!". Result? No. But She said today for sure. We'll see.
      Rectrix likes this.
    24. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      I've requested an erection later today. It's been tentatively granted!
      Rectrix likes this.
    25. HouseboyForHer
      HouseboyForHer
      Locktober - in the books. On to NO-vember.
      Rectrix likes this.
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  • About

    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    U.S.
    Occupation:
    Nerd Techy with lots of Math
    My key is held by:
    Wife
    Locked since:
    October 2020
    Your chastity role:
    • Submissive
    • Other - (Explain in "About You")
    • Maid
    Chastity devices:
    Badass Workroom BA-20.
    Chastity resume:
    One stint summer 2016, another starting mid November 2020.
    Significant issues with comfort. In early 2021 we tried again. I'm in a Badass Workroom BA20 that is nearly perfect. I'll be wearing it 99% of the time for the rest of my life.
    With the encouragement of a kindred spirit over at bdsmlr, I'm going to invest more time on this forum. So I thought i would re-introduce myself (since a lot has changed, and since I didn't really jump in after that).

    I'm currently fully locked up, with the key held by my Wife. For reasons I will try to explain, I "want" to be locked up absolutely 24x7, with exceptions for travel and doctor's visits, and of course for her amusement. Alas, she commands out also in certain situations, most notably cycling outdoors. I wear a Jailbird. Last time I was here, I was struggling and totally frustrated as I tried to make a holy trainer work. The Jailbird, plus a little lube where the ring folds my scrotum up, has made all the difference.

    We are engaged in gentle Femdom and as much of an FLR (WLR?) relationship as seems appropriate. She makes all the decisions, or rather, I defer to Her, but we are still very much equals. I help Her with computer stuff, and routinely reminder Her of things she wants to do, or said She would do. I do nearly all the chores, but she often helps me fold laundry.

    In addition to being submissive, I have a strong masochistic streak running through me. Certain kinds of pain are a real turn-on. It is not hard to imagine that this is driven by some sort of disgust of self, and indeed I judge myself very harshly - something I am working on.

    As is so common, my lovely wife is not naturally a domme. So as is also so common, I am searching for any way to help her feel comfortable making me serve her and suffer for Her. I have not been inside my Wife for perhaps 15 years and our sex life is totally broken, despite our mutual effort to revive it. History: for all those years I was depressed (the medicated kind) and totally frustrated with myself and my life, despite appearances of great success. Around my Wife, I was snarky, grumpy, and a powder keg that was sometimes upset and even frightening Her. Flash forward: I approached her gently, "coming out" about my true, full-time nature of submission. She accepted me, and our FLR and chastity started in September 2021. At the same time, we instituted three rules. (1) Always be nice to my Wife. (2) Always be nice to myself. (3) Respond proportionately - rather than having a tantrum - when bad things happen. She agreed to back this up with corporal punishment. We are very successful in modifying my behavior: I almost always treat her like a Queen, instead of being snotty or snarky or morose. I wear a chastity cage to ensure I don't masturbate while we attempt to resurrect our sex life. This is complicated by neuroses we both have, and a flagging libido She is struggling with. She does see the benefits of chastity, but teasing is not natural for Her. I am 100% committed to encouraging her gently, offering ideas, and being patient, patient, patient. She is in charge. Last orgasm: Oct 11, 2021. The one before that: Dec. 13, 2020.
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