I have to say I've been very much mulling over this too, also located in Aus!
They really arn't for long term. But, if its a more femine look you crave I think they can actually be pretty amazing.
Re the fufu clip, one thing it totally needs i waist band, and also one to go under the crotch to hold it on tight. Once you can those its quite...
I will look into it, thanks very much :)