I am new to chastity. My girlfriend and me are more than 20 years in a relation and have two children together. I bought my first chastity cage earlier this month and stlll am gathering the courage to ask her to be the keyholder.
welcome to the mansion, feel free to tell more about your history, as you are new to chastity tell us your goal or fantasy, feel free whe have no judgment.
Although my wife and me love each other, our sex life is dead for a few years. I watched porn and read fictional sex stories, and did the rattlesnake shake once or twice a day. So when we had occassional sex, I never could keep it erect for long. I have a secret fantasy to be feminized, and that is how I came to idea to lock myself. This feminizing fantasy, I like to keep it just like that, a fantasy. I won't tell my wife, I think she will not understand. I will ask her to be my KH, but I still try to collect my courage. This life I like to keep in the bedroom. What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. I don't want my children or the rest of the family to know.
good beggenning, checking how to comunicate should be your first step, not easy, share a post on these difficulties and it should be nice to share it
Welcome to CM...Thanks for sharing. Great community of experience and information here. Agree 100% on communication is key