Hey, I'm totally new here and to the entire lifestyle. I've very recently started seeing a guy who has introduced me to this whole world. I am very much looking forward to fully embracing it. We've decided on a name for me for now. But I'm not happy with the name's he's suggested for himself, and it's obviously my decision. So i was hoping for some more ideas on here. I've had a look through previous posts and not seen any I'm loving. I really don't want to call him something effeminate or sissyfy him. I get why that often works for people, I just think personally i will find using those types of names a turn off. Thank you for any suggestions.
I myself prefer the Dude. That or, uh, His Dudeness, or uh, Duder, or El Duderino, if you're not into the whole brevity thing. In all seriousness, maybe if we know a little more of your relationship dynamics? Or his name for you and we can find an opposite. Lot people just say slave.
Well. Regardless. Good luck with this new dynamic to your relationship. Best advice? Make it your own. Don't look to net room full of people looking to live out their fantasy's vicariously through your relationship to convince you as to what you should or should not be doing. Women might be able to give you better advice. Good luck! Have fun! Don't feel feel like you must live up to other's expectations of what it should or shouldn't be. Do your thing.
He's calling me Miss and my name at the moment. It's all very very new to me, so I'm still learning. As is the relationship, so the dynamics are still being worked on really. I guess it could be too early to have set names, but being as new as i am, i have very little ideas of names other than my searches on these types of forums.
Thank. You. Hey people generally hate me here but I do try to be honest. Anyways, have a good time with it. Have fun with it. Don't take it too seriously.
When my Mistress wants to give me a title I'm either "subby Kiye" or "slut". I think whether it's the former or latter depends on if she wants my response to be a horny one or not but they're interchangable.
Mistress for her. Little Slave for me or Sweetie. Most of the time she just tells me what to do or calls me Sweetie. It's when she's in a more kinky and demanding frame of mind she refers to me as Little Slave.
My wife isn't much for the names. Maybes we will get there. She has taken to telling me I'm her slave. I broached the subject on how to address her and she is ok with ma'am for now.
So incase anyone is wondering, we've gone for Simp - Someone who will say anything to please someone, particularly a girl, in the hopes that they will be in good favour with that person.
My wife has told me she likes "Goddess", I will often use yes ma'am when she asks for something. I will call her anything she wants, as long as she like it!
I call my Madam, Madam most of the time, or goddess or my owner, both in private and public, Madam calls me Cuck, pup, slave, bitch ect, or she does combinations to cuckie pup, you get the idea.
Welcome, and it's awesome to hear that you're excited about exploring this lifestyle! Hope you both enjoy the journey! My Mistress is pretty strict about having me properly use titles and honorifics. I am expected to address her as "Madame J" or "Mistress Renee" at all times unless otherwise excused (she permits a few specific exceptions for situations like while around vanilla friends and/or family). It's a simple and effective way to show my respect for just how much she means to me. It took some time to get used to it but over ten years, it's become natural to me. She calls me whatever she so pleases, but I mainly am referred to as her "boo" (hence the username). It started as a pet name when we were first dating as vanilla and it has always stuck. We like it because it's slightly silly and even a little diminutive, but can slip through unnoticed by anyone not in the know. She also likes to use slightly demeaning, yet endearing, things like "sweetie" and "good boy," especially when we're around others or in public.