I never thought I would be so grateful for ruined orgasms until my lovely Wife of 27 years began organ controlling me this year.. Today after 28 days of no release, she gave me the most intense ruined orgasm that had me me moaning knees buckling and full body shaking Until her property was fully emptied. I even thank her as we stood afterwards (Mistress loves sucking) and I leaned against her telling her thank you for emptying me. she held me and kissed me and said “good boy” and all I could do was melt and kiss her. Next ruined will be at least 30 days she informed me. They are my new norm as she informed me real orgasms only “MAY” happen on special occasions.. How many other submissive males are grateful for their ruined orgasms?
Looks like you got exactly what you wished for. It will only get better. Enjoy it I know your wife will enjoy it too.
We refer to these as no-hands ejaculations and I am the opposite of you. No-hands leave me still feeling full and frustrated. They serve to excercise my male system for health reasons but empty minimal semen.
When thats all you get, a ruined orgasm is something looked forward to. For the last few years now i only get milked or ruined orgasms from Mistress. Both empty me without any pleasure, so reinforce Her control and my submission. The milking is more passive and humiliating. With a ruined orgasm, while leaving me unsatisfied and more frustrated afterwards, at least i get the physical contact and some stimulation, even though ending with an agonizing and frustrating finish. Both leave me tired, submissive, empty from leaking not squirting, and unsatisfied afterward. i have never felt the "intensity" and orgasmlike feeling you describe. You are lucky you get that feeling.
@LockedSissyHusband if you’ve been milked for years, does the time it takes change? Do you take longer or quicker to start leaking, or is it more dependent on how long since your last milking? We are just starting on this aspect.
When I'm locked a lot I look forward just to an erection, even if she won't let me out in her or rub it. Just the freedom and full throbbing can be enough if that's all she wants to do.
You are so lucky! Ruined orgasms are the best! But what is even better is getting your prostate milked and emptied!! Has she ever done that for you?
Yes I am lucky. All the attention she pays to her property just to ruin it. The sensation is amazing as I feel the semen moving through the pipes and then just ooze and stream out while She just smiles and says “there we go, good boy”...
I have already admitted to my Lady that given the choice between an orgasm without an erection or an erection I'd take the erection. I do still miss those..
It all depends on the person and for me its usually best after 7 days of lock-up, but there is some teasing to help it build. Summer and winter is different for us with Summer more intense. Lock night for the most part is after our "date" night on a Saturday and Sunday we spend by the mostly nude outside by the pool. She likes to show off and tease me during the day. Monday and Tuesday is too busy for any teasing, but Wednesday night she will climb in bed and just rub and kiss me. Nothing on Thursday, but Friday really tease me up. We may go out for dinner (not this year) and head to the bar for a drink. She likes to walk in ahead of me and find some guy to chat up leaving me to watch. Then we go home and she tells me all about the guy, what he said, and how he tried to talk her into going home with him. Now Saturday night is Milking night, only if I have pleased her and gotten her off multiple times. I get into the prone position and she lubes me up real well and inserts either her fingers or an anal probe. I know she is hitting the spot when I start to see fluid leaking and after a bit and the right pressure, it starts flowing out in dribs and drabs. She has a plastic plate under me to catch the fluid and once full pulls out and I'm done.
I had one ruined orgasm while my wife was sucking my cock, well I had to pull out when I felt I was getting close. I just laid me cock in my hand and waited for the cum to dribble out. I was going to ask her if I could eat it, but she just said "go wash your hands".
Those are the best kind, if I tell my wife I didn't feel anything, she says "good", because she knows I will remain horny.
Why wife has been experimenting with giving me ruined orgasms. At one point, it had been three weeks with no full orgasms and we had a teasing session that led to a ruined orgasm that really got me frustrated. I find a ruined orgasm really messes with me, because is not only is frustrating in the monument, but I also know I just lost the chance for a full enjoyable orgasm any time soon.