Does being locked make you more appreciative of your wife/partner, does it make you more loving and attentive in non sexual ways?
I wouldn't say makes me, but rather allows me to be more attentive. I find myself staring at my lovely wife endlessly at times when i'm locked.
Fair enough, i was getting hung up on the word make, rather then focusing on the word more lol. Cuz it's not like I'm not loving and attentive by default lol
Definitely! Makes me feel like I did when mistress and I first got together. I'm way more eager to please her (non sexually) massages, gifts, going above and beyond what I normally do etc... It's not that I don't want to do those things for her when I'm not locked I'm just less likely to think about them for some reason.
Absolutely. When I'm free and easy, I am affectionate but I tend to keep my distance most of the time. When I'm locked, she has to request space.
I think the novelty of being locked fades with time. The focus should always be Her and not how you feel. There are times I am reminded it is there, but it is part of the day to day routine and not influencing how I would treat Her. On or off She is my only focus.
The fact that Mrs Chaste keeps me locked is truly appreciated, it was my request after all! Having said that, she really is a thoroughly nice person anyway. There are many things she does that I appreciate anyway. I honestly have a wonderful wife in so many ways, with or without chastity! The world is much better place with her in it! It's not just my life that she makes brighter either! Sorry for being so gushy!
Many times it's a placebo effect; if you need a hunk of metal or plastic hanging off your dangly bits to be more attentive, then it follows that without it you're a bit self-obsessed with your own pleasure. There's no doubt that being locked is a turn-on. Some men focus that arousal onto their partner, but it's not a given. Males who lock without a partner often wind up just lusting after women in general.
Initially I think it made me be far more like that.. now I think its just second nature for me... at least i have had no complaints in respect to those traits.