Benefits of chastity: Poll 1

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by L-u-c-y, Aug 8, 2018.

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Does being locked make you more loving and attentive in non sexual ways?

  1. Yes

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    84.6%
  2. No

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    1.7%
  3. It makes no change

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  1. L-u-c-y
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    Does being locked make you more appreciative of your wife/partner, does it make you more loving and attentive in non sexual ways?
     
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    I wouldn't say makes me, but rather allows me to be more attentive. I find myself staring at my lovely wife endlessly at times when i'm locked.
     
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    I think that counts as a yes :)
     
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    Fair enough, i was getting hung up on the word make, rather then focusing on the word more lol.

    Cuz it's not like I'm not loving and attentive by default lol
     
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    Definitely! Makes me feel like I did when mistress and I first got together. I'm way more eager to please her (non sexually) massages, gifts, going above and beyond what I normally do etc... It's not that I don't want to do those things for her when I'm not locked I'm just less likely to think about them for some reason.
     
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    Absolutely. When I'm free and easy, I am affectionate but I tend to keep my distance most of the time. When I'm locked, she has to request space.
     
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    I think the novelty of being locked fades with time. The focus should always be Her and
    not how you feel. There are times I am reminded it is there, but it is part of the day to day
    routine and not influencing how I would treat Her. On or off She is my only focus.
     
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    The fact that Mrs Chaste keeps me locked is truly appreciated, it was my request after all! Having said that, she really is a thoroughly nice person anyway. There are many things she does that I appreciate anyway. I honestly have a wonderful wife in so many ways, with or without chastity! The world is much better place with her in it! It's not just my life that she makes brighter either! :) Sorry for being so gushy!
     
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    Many times it's a placebo effect; if you need a hunk of metal or plastic hanging off your dangly bits to be more attentive, then it follows that without it you're a bit self-obsessed with your own pleasure. There's no doubt that being locked is a turn-on. Some men focus that arousal onto their partner, but it's not a given. Males who lock without a partner often wind up just lusting after women in general.
     
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    Initially I think it made me be far more like that.. now I think its just second nature for me... at least i have had no complaints in respect to those traits.
     
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    Yes, no doubt, for me it is one of the benefits I share with My Love
     
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