This. I did 3 months ago and wish I had gotten the balls to ask a decade ago. Better late than never. Everything isn’t perfect but damn is it pretty close. I think I lucked out though with a suppressed dominant wife. Now not so suppressed. The door has been opened, let’s see how far things go
We will never know if we never ask Never ever did I think my wife would spank. Whip or cane me... let alone her really enjoy doing it. She loves the freedom being in charge gives her. She always viewed sex as something that was zero sum. If she flirted she viewed she had to have not only the time but desire to have sex then and there. Now she has control to pursue any and all monotonous activities she is interested in and out of the bedroom.