Sometimes it’s so difficult to know what to do. @lockit is not able to come to visit for the foreseeable future, it could be October before we are together again. I know that some of that time will be spent with him in work situations when he has to be unlocked so it’s not like he will be locked all of the time until I am there. Sometimes when it is going to be a long lock and I am not going to be there, it is difficult to make sure you cover the logistics. What if he is on the bike, what if he has a doctor’s appointment, will it include an x-ray or scan? As a partner and Keyholder you can tie yourself in knots trying to work out what is for the best. When that happens, I just go back and read the thread he started - https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/cruel-mistress-fantasy.22467/ and then I know just what to do.