firstly I have to say it started all wrong with my FLR experience I was being controlling and demanding with my Queen pushing her into a corner all the time then I got talking and taking advice from members on CM and I must say it’s been amazing ever since. I have acted totally different given my Queen the space to adapt to the new experience and it’s been totally amazing. Today as an example my Queen has been busy at work I have done all the washing ironing is all done all the beds are all changed house hoovered bathroom bleached when my Queen come home the smile on her face was worth it I now know I’m doing it the right way with no pressure on my Queen and she’s so relaxed now every day is getting better and better I love being her little minion. My advice to anyone starting new in FLR make sure we give our Queens the space they need to come to terms and let her do it her own way and you will be in for a great FLR experience so I just would like to thank everyone who gave me the advice I needed
congratulations, and I hope it continues to go well for you both. You're not the first and you won't be the last to effectively top from the bottom and try to dictate the terms of the FLR. Well done for seeing where you were going wrong and doing something about it.
I think we all made the mistake you did when attempting to bring this dimension into our relationships. I had one miserable attempt followed by a second meh situation where she felt pressured. The advice I received here was awesome. I did as you did with all the chores and stuff. I then took away all expectations on my end and just focused on what will make her happy. I didn’t mention anything I’d like and no topping from the bottom. I think it’s something we all have to learn on our own like touchingba hot stove. Lol As of yesterday my wife now wears the key on a necklace and we’re waiting on a beautiful custom key she can proudly wear all the time.
Thanks guys I’m glad I wasn’t the only one who started the same way. Last night done all my jobs as I said in post my Queen was happy I didn’t think well now I deserve a treat all I wanted her to do was have a soak and a chill but she shouted her minion up stairs just wrapped in towel which she knows I enjoy we lay in bed had a lovely cuddle she was opening the towel teasing me I was dying for her to set me free to explore her body but no release few weeks ago I would of been upset and having a go at her. But this time I just enjoyed what little I was given as I wouldn’t normally get called upstairs. But I did get to massage her legs and she ordered me to suck her big toe as she’s found she likes this a lot that would also never would of happened weeks ago either so I’m 100% happy I changed my attitude to the FLR experience I am loving a fantasy I would only dream about
Glad to hear it’s all going well for you now, and happy that your enjoying it to! Everyone is different, and need different things, and it sounds like you have found just what you need, I also love working for my madam, and both at home and at work, if there is any over time going I will always ask my queen if I should take it, she always says yes!
Thanks that is true she actually works for me so I get told to work her shifts from Time to time find it hard being a boss think it makes it more exciting that it’s total reversed out of work
I am fortunate in that my salary is sufficient so that my Wife does not have to earn money. She was a stay at home mom and now that our kids are grown She can pursue yoga and pottery and kayaking and whatever else interests Het while I work for Her.
She is away for several days on a camping trip with 2 girlfriends while I work and remain chaste for Her
Absolutely! I know one of Her girlfriends well and it wouldn't surprise me too much if she had her husband locked up too
I have said this in other threads - of course I fantasize about my Wife cuckolding me when SHe travels without me