Wife's New Year's Resolution

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    So my wife and I have been experimenting off and on with chastity since 2013. I have never really been locked up for more than a couple of weeks. For my birthday this year she decided to get me a PA piercing so I can wear a more secure device and on December 1 she locked me in a PA-5000. My last orgasm was November 30 and today she has informed me that my first release will not be until this Friday, December 12. Then I will not get another orgasm until Christmas day. She also informed me that she decided her New Year's resolution for 2016 is by the end of the year to only allow me one orgasm a month! She will start with only letting me out every two weeks then after awhile adding days until I can make it a full 30 by next December. I am excited, nervous, and horny all at the same time! I'm hoping everyone on here will offer me some encouragement as I face this challenge ahead of me.
     
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    Sounds like a progression you should be able to handle. Have a great New Year!
     
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    Thank you! I should be able to handle it even though it seems it won't matter to her if I can handle it or not. She is determined to meet her goal. You have a great New Year too!
     
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    Get ready for the inevitable, if she uses the power of tease you get hard however caused, eventually you will split the PA-5000 right down the centre line, when mine went I repaired, strengthened the design and replaced the plastic PA pin with a custom made 8mm 316L stainless steel curved one :)
     
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    She wants to eventually upgrade to a metal device. We are just using the PA-5000 to make sure everything fits okay and I can get adjusted to it before spending a small fortune. But thanks for the advise!
     
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    Good plan, I may have something very interesting for you both soon ;)
     
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    I'm looking forward to seeing what you may have for me!
     
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    Fantastic! Congratulations!
     
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    Sounds like you're off to a fine start. Gradually working your way to some serious chastity. That's how my wife/mistress and I started. We went from a week to ten days, then a month, then three months, to the full year 2014. Now, it's completely up to her, minimum three months to whenever she decides. I am released every ten days or so for a supervised cleaning and a shave. Sometimes a teasing, but then right back in the cage. I have come to hate bags of frozen veggies.
     
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    Maybe I'm still too new to chastity, but I already feel maxed out in sexual frustration as it is, I just can't imagine going that long, especially while having to endure frequent teasing and denial sessions. I suppose if if I was gradually worked up to it, then perhaps anything is possible. I am so incredibly amazed by you and your wife's achievements and a little envious. I would imagine it would take a really strict keyholder to get through that. You and your wife definitely have my utmost respect.
     
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    I used to get let out on the 1st of each month....sometimes she let me orgasm and sometimes she didn't.
    Was easy to keep clean just kept soaping up and washing in the shower.
     
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    Thanks everyone for the support! I really appreciate it. I will keep everyone posted as time goes by.
     
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    So yesterday was my first release since December 1st and it was fantastic! It was supposed to be last Friday but my wife extended my lock up for five days since I had a wet dream Tuesday night. Yesterday, my wife had me strip naked then lie on the bed. She strapped my hands and feet down and teased me for about 30 minutes. At one point, she did free one of my hands for a few minutes so that I could play with her pussy. She then straddled my body and used a vibrator to give herself an orgasm before mounting my dick. She only had to move up and down 4-5 times before I erupted like a volcano! It was the most intense orgasm I have ever had. It felt like electricity was coursing through my entire body. Once she had emptied my balls inside of her, she mounted my face and had me lick her clean. She even scooped up the bit that fell out onto my stomach and fed it to me. She left me strapped to the bed for a few minutes while she cleaned up and my dick deflated. She then slid my PA-5000 back on, locked it, then undid my straps. I consider myself a pretty lucky guy to have such a great wife. She is still not planning on letting me out of my cage or giving me another orgasm until Christmas. I can't wait!
     
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    Congratulations are in order.
    Though thee rate of progression does seem a little slow.
    You could always assist you wife's pursuit of her goal by asking her to both keep you locked and denied for a little longer initially.
    You may be surprised to hear that going from 2 weeks to 30 days could easily be achieved in a single step. A step you will both develop an appreciation for.

    Once she learns (with much effort from you) how to maximise the benefits to her of keeping you locked permanently and increasing your periods of denial you can both learn the benefits top you both of being granted random releases entirely at her whim. Always remember that if she chooses to do this for you it is a granted privelege that you must constantly earn.

    You will soon find that the more effort you are willing to put in, as in most things, the more you will get out of it.
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    I agree with @filltee though it is really up to the needs of the wife as to when you get unlocked. I had my first orgasm in nearly six weeks at the weekend and it was explosive. I am not expecting to have another this year so it is going to be a good few weeks at least. I am going to ask my Wife whether we can build up the time between orgasms further next year to see if it has any affect on my attitude towards her and our relationship.
     
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    How long are you thinking about?
     
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    As always I need to do this in a way that is not influencing her, as in it would still be her choice when I was used for her pleasure and when I got to have an orgasm. I went just under six weeks this time and it was everything I had hoped for, and more. It is more that I want a longer period pleasing her while I learn more about what this game is all about than I just want to break some record. If I was ten years younger I would definitely be looking to double each time until I got up to at least a year, to find out what that would be like.

    The simple answer would be at least two months but to be honest the truth is I don't know. I actually liked the ache of desire while pleasuring my Wife and that went when I had an orgasm. I can feel it beginning to build up again after a few days but I want that intensity back.
     
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    Sounds like 2016 looks to be a promising year. Good luck.
     
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    We are doing a week progressively. He got his new Queens Keep, locked for a week, then 2, etc. Plans for the new year will be adding a week each time. Should only give him 10 total orgasims in the first year.
     
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    ;);)
    I like how you think. ;) Seriously though, ten is plenty enough.
     
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    Impressive. Have fun in 2016!
     
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    We will have to see. He is concerned but I believe we need to step it up a level
     
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    Well, concerned or not, it's not really his choice, its entirely yours and I commend you for taking the initiative. I'm concerned about my wife pushing it from 2 weeks to once a month too, but it's what she wants.

    I wish you the best of luck. Please keep us posted and let us know if you need any advice on anything at all, we're here to help.
     
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    Oh so true.
     
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    I have D on short spells at the moment as we are just starting. 4 to 7 days in, 1 to 3 out. Give me time though, and the ins will increase. I don't have as much scope with the outs, but will be doing things there too. Bren
     
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