Lately my wife's usually very intense orgasms have not been intense. What had happened was that she made sex all about teasing me to give me pleasure by edging me with hand and mouth. Then she would have her orgasm and then go back to teasing me again. She was making sex like before, all about me except minus my orgasm. Tonight I told her to just focus on herself and be greedy. That did it and now she says she will keep me locked up more during sex. After a month of orgasm denial I rarely get horny out of my cage and have a hard time getting hard. It was a waste of her time to edge me and I told her so. I enjoy making her orgasm and that is my pleasure. It worked. She had a very intense orgasm that left her panting. I think that after 4 years she is realizing that she had substituted edging for giving me an orgasm. Still was focusing on my pleasure before hers. We talked about it and I think she understands. She also told me that I was only getting an orgasm three times a year from now on. She picked the lowest number out of the range I agreed to. The days are my birthday, our anniversary and Valentine's' Day. I like to know when we are doing long term denial. Makes it much easier for me. Just curious about those who do chastity with a loved one. Does your wife worry about your pleasure or does she make sex all about her and could care less about you until it is orgasm time?