Wife freaked me out today

We always make sure my sub has room to move at least one hand so he can signal the peace sign, which is our safeword for when he can't talk. We never do scenes where he is totally immobilised and unable to speak, because that compromises safety.

 

Thank you for your answer.

 

Oh I like that idea. We've always used some rhythmic grunts (in a rhythm that doesn't make sense with the scene, basically), but a finger signal would work well so long as hand motion isn't compromised. Also works with breathplay while grunting may not.

 

Exactly we like breathplay that's how we started this handsign.

 

Wow, what a great mind fuck. Difference between your wife and mine is mine would use crazy glue and then it has to be drilled off. I will accept that fact and its set and done. Your wife can keep doing it over and over again and just keep you on edge and off balance.

Got to tip my hat to her!