What to do with your intrusive horny thoughts?

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    I've only been locked for a few days, and already I'm tormented by intrusive horny/subby thoughts.

    I'm very much enjoying these thoughts, but damn it's so hard to think about anything else right now.

    What are your coping mechanisms when you feel like this and you don't have an immediate outlet? i.e. when you have to work and aren't around your keyholder etc?
     
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    Really into hairy Pitts at the moment
     
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    Read this site and reply to threads like this.
    Put more focus and energy into the work task at hand.
    Go out and exercise, do something challenging and hard. Build something, fix something, take it apart and put it back together and see how many parts I can leave out but still have it work.
     
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    Oh, and another common theme is that I keep devising new things to introduce to my wife KH to empower her confidence and dominance.

    Go figure.
     
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    Nice, thanks for the response- you sound like you have some good "go to" activities. I'd probably be coping better if I had a bit more work to do today.
     
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    I'm currently nearly two weeks in since my last ruined orgasm and I always find that this is about the worst time for me. I try to keep busy doing other things - model making, cleaning, tidying cooking, etc., and usually by the time I'm into the third week, things have got a bit easier.

    At the moment I'm longing the closeness that we feel when she orgasms on me, and am really craving the tension release of a slow prostate massage or spanking.

    Actually - sometimes being spanked/paddled/cropped is the most effective way of taking my mind off my lack of orgasm and it often leaves me with a contented relaxed afterglow that can last a few days until I start to feel horny again.
     
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    Waer yourself out by doing things. Whether it is exercising, DIY, chores you have put off, anything that doesn't require too much mental effort.
     
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    I say enjoy it. Ramping things up is a large part of what it’s about for me.
     
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    I lean into it. The thoughts that cause the body to react in a pleasant way which I enjoy.
     
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    IB-Chaste Chastity Superman.

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    I long for the days where ‘a few days’ was tormenting.
    The addiction will hit and those few days will not be enough. Next year you’ll be posting about a short 3 month lock up.
     
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    It really depends what’s going on, if it’s been quiet then I will just try and distract myself by reading, I find reading really focuses my attention and blocks every thing else from my thoughts.
     
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    Find your way. Good luck.
     
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