Monday evening, during a rare but intense teasing session, my wife/KH casually announced that I would probably be locked up the rest of my life! This from the woman who, until 6 months ago, would typically lose interest in chastity after a few weeks! She went on to say to talk about a family trip in a few months where I may have to remove it for security so she doesn't have to explain it to other family members if I get stopped in security. That's when I realized she had actually put some thought into it. I asked if she would make me wear it if we ever went to a nude beach or to a swingers club again, and she said "of course." So clearly she doesn't have a problem with other people knowing and/or seeing me locked up, which prompted me to ask if she would ever tell anyone about it (she has been fairly open with certain friends about some aspects of our sex life). She said she didn't know, but that she may make comments and hint at it, and leave people wondering. Then she laughed and said, "but you know I sometimes say things without thinking." This coming Saturday marks 6 months since she told me I needed to lock it up for "a while." She admitted she likes keeping me locked up and is starting to enjoy the attention and REALLY enjoyed the orgasm I had just given her orally. She had planned to let me cum but I forgot the key in the bathroom when I was allowed to remove it for cleaning prior, so an orgasm for me was out of the question - unless I could cum in my cage, which she made sure I couldn't. My mind was reeling by that point, as this was quite the intense, exquisite, mind-F#$K. Of course I agreed to everything she said - told her I wanted so bad for her to keep me locked up and control my orgasms. It really surprised her when I told her that having been locked up this long, I rarely thought of cumming myself, instead I though about her pleasure. She smiled at that and told me how much she was enjoying this, and we agreed that we wished she had done this years ago. She said she was a little sad that I wasn't able to cum, but that she doesn't feel guilty about denying me any more. Anyway, this has been spinning around in my head for 2 days now and I just wanted/needed to write it down. I've spent the last several years not knowing where this whole chastity thing would go, and while I still can't say for sure at this point, the way she is acting lately, I have a pretty good idea she's serious about it this time.
@Midnight1966 and @Pepe_ thank you! I'm still trying to get my head around the idea that she controls me and I want it that way, so congratulating me certainly helps with that part of it. I guess it kind of reinforces it with me.
Congratulations to you both - sounds like you're both very happy with the new (and possibly permanent!) arrangements.
When Mrs Edge discovered that she could make me come in my cage, she stopped feeling the least bit guilty. Or sad. And now that she sees how intense it has become for me she is absolutely committed to keeping me caged permanently.
Wow, 6 months. I'm almost at the two month stage and am starting to feel that it's more important, more satisfying for me to please my partner than for my own sexual release. It's becoming easier and easier for us both to accept the norm that I am caged Well done. I envy you getting so far
It takes a while for the experience to grow for the understanding to click about what male chastity can do for a relationship. But when it does, the magic really starts and you can't put the genie back into the bottle! This summer I took my wife to a nudist beach, the first time for her. To my surprise she took her clothes off quite quickly after me, and she had no concerns that I was wearing my cage, it is our normal now. But go back a few years when I first broke my 6 month record, she would have been horrified then if I had suggested the combination of being seen in public wearing a cage, with us both otherwise naked on a nudist beach. Now, it was just another day in our holiday.
We spent a week at a clothing optional resort a few years ago (pre-chastity) and it was the best, most free-ing trip we have taken. I envy Europeans who don't have the puritanical convictions against nudity we deal with in the states. I don't think the genie has been fully released yet, but the bottle cap has been loosened.
Today starts the next 6 months. I had kind of hoped for a celebration of sorts after hitting that 6-month mark yesterday, but alas, it was just another day of lock up. We both have the day off tomorrow, so I'm hoping for some intimacy, though I agree, I would be happy just pleasing my wife. It's curious how one's mind can adapt to that concept - and all it took was some stainless steel and a brass lock!
It is amazing how much one can adapt and it becomes the norm. I admit, it was a bit scary to think about her denying me orgasms for however long she wanted, but at this point I find myself almost hoping she doesn't allow me to cum for a while (though teasing would certainly be appreciated!). If and when she does allow me to cum, I wonder about the emotions following: will I be glad, or will I instead be sad or melancholy?
Yup. I think I'm going to be let out of the cage tomorrow, but I simply don't want to orgasm ... well at least now, not in the moment, that's what I think. I just want to please my partner and want him to realise that it's good for him, it's good for me, this chastity
The day that only happens once, you don't remember when it was, but you'll never forget it. The day that you realise that you're not just content with not being allowed to cum. You realise that you no longer want to cum. In fact, you dread the possibility and will do anything to avoid it...
Thank you all for the love, support, encouragement, and "likes! I really appreciate the feedback as I navigate through this. I have started a blog post here https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...nings-our-chastity-journey.52380/#post-638207 where I will post updates on our journey and various discoveries and awakenings on the way. Stop over and take a look if you are so inclined...
I feel I'm already there. I don't want the cage off, it would be a shame to cum, I just want to please my partner and enjoy his body as much as I can. A great feeling