Wearing a bra to work or out in public

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    Any helpful information on wearing --
    I purchased a lighty padded T-shirt bra. I been having an urge to try one on.. I finally gave in. 28198743874400000002_5.jpg
    I measured myself and came up with 38A. Would need under shirt to help hide?
    In winter I wear alot of sweatshirt but summer/fall nothing heavy
     
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    I used to wear a bra but I got them from an online store that makes them for men so they fit well. I live in a tropical place and simply wore a loose shirt over it. The only problem I had was that I was constantly adjusting the straps and trying to hide it from others. Regular women's bras had stiff cups. My bras were soft all over so that it hugged my breasts and did not show through my shirts. Wearing panties and bras made for a man's body made it so much easier. As with most things kinky, after doing it for a few months I grew bored of it and bought myself some expensive mens boxer shorts and ditched the bra. Most days when I am home I dress in boxers and graphic Tee shirts. Very comfy. I do not know how girls put up with bras. :)

    Here is where I bought all of my stuff: http://shop.hommemystere.com/categories/Bras/
     
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    I think as the bra you have purchased is lightly padded to give the illusion of breasts there is really no hiding it, a padded bra is not there to be hidden.

    If you want to wear something under light weight clothing then you are looking at training bras or sports bras - soft material that is close to the skin. This will be easier to hide under summer clothing.
     
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    I have some unlined bras in black, nude and white without a formed cup which work really well under t-shirts and Summer clothing. I purchased some silicone enhancers at Walmart that are about the size of a chicken breast and I wear those in the unlined bras to at least feel a little more feminine without risk of being exposed. Of course, there's still the matter of the strap adjusters which cause "bumps" on the back of your shoulders, if someone is looking closely. Front closure bras normally have the adjusters on the front, just above the cups, so they tend not to be as obvious under a loose fitting top. You really have to be careful, it seems!
     
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    I've probably got more bras than my wife... For everyday wear I found M&S do AA cups, so bought a couple of pairs last Xmas - no underwire or padding, so hardly noticeable under a loose fitting top. At least I think it's not noticeable. .. that or no one wants to ask the 6'3" guy if he's wearing a bra....
     
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    Lana's sissy pet definitely has more bras than her wife -- Goddess made me count recently and the number came out to 46. Now, not all of those still fit -- but Lana's sissy pet must wear a bra at all times except when at work or when her wife would find it embarrassing (such as a family event where hugging would be likely). otherwise she wears a bra all the time. No one has said anything yet...but Lana's sissy pet just knows she's going to end up adjusting her straps in public one day :)
     
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    Thanks for replying to my post all
     
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    Mistress gets mine from M & S as well. :)
     
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    LOL

    I'm 6'4" so I can relate to that.

    Another reason that I'm not overly concerned with people noticing the slight outline of my bra thru the back of my shirt is that i my right leg was amputated requiring me to use a prosthetic leg to get around. Also, I'm almost always wearing shorts (Texas heat) so my prosthetic is visible and draws everyone's attention to my "leg" instead of what I'm wearing.
     
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    @zebra

    Can't being able to sew shouldn't hold you back :) I'm sure there are some simple videos on-line, and from what I saw adding a lock or two is very straight forward to do.
    Be sure to let us all know how you make out!
     
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    One in the video the guy was using a sewing machine -
    If I decided to try I would look around more-

    I was really only looking info on wearing one out public and the experiences other have had

    But thanks for encourage - the is going to be a new road

    Panties and being locked are easy because the hide under shorts and pants
     
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    ooh. please i'm not being rude but do you has one of them springy thingys on your leg so you can run fast. I seen them on the tv and folks can run ever so fast with them.
     
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    No problem, you're cool.

    No I don't have a springy thingy.......LOL.

    There are several names given to the thingys but they are often referred to as "prosthetic running blades ".

    Because I'm retired and in no hurry to get anywhere i don't need to run so I have a somewhat standard prosthetic.
     

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    oh yes thank you for ansering me and i have seen soldiers that have got them ones.
     
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    Hi All,
    Well I tried it and even wore it to the store to pickup meds fro my wife. Under a loose black T-shirt - I felt it wasn't noticeable.
    I purchased a 38A - cups were loose unless I stood with back straight. I might look a bralette or bra made for a man. Those look they might fit better but the colors and patterns are bland
     
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    Did you get that 'I might be spotted' thrill? I remember the first time I went out dressed fully and it was like asking a girl out for the first time and losing my virginity rolled into one!
     
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    I was feeling pretty calm the clerk was lass than 2 ft away - no awkward stare.
    but I think I might try looking for a bralette - it would appear it would fit better --
    I not looking to stuff a bra and have bouncy breasts -- I think Iam looking for something to hug my upper body like my cage hugs my penis..
    That secure feeling
     
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    I have more bras than my wife and I wear them daily. I have unlined, lined, padded and lifting bras. The trick is to have the confidence, wear shirts with plaids, lines, anything than just plain light colored shirts. If you start with a unlined bra that has the adjusters in the front or land on the top, it is that much easier, if you can't fine one, don't sweat it, nobody really notices anyways
     
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    During puberty I developed breast tissue and wore a bra until my body grew into them.

    I wore sports bras that concealed them, but no one noticed it was there, even when someone patted me on the back.

    Unless you are wearing a strappy or cupped one, you should be fine sticking with a sports bra. Though if you are wearing it for the feminity of wearing a frilly bra, those tend to be noticeable.
     
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    it not the bra that's seen its the lumps unless its a bikini top or you have not got nothing on cept undies.
     
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    I wear sometimes a bra. But at work not in summer as I'm usually just with a T shirt on top, and while cleaning tanks I often finish wet.... And wet T Shirts could be very embarassing! Lol!
     
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