Had an embarrassing moment. I work retail and had a couple that I was working with. The husband tensed up and gave a small yelp of pain... his wife looked at him with a grin and said " an other 6000 s pinch". That must have been their code. With out missing a beat I said "you might be using to big of a spacer. We all went quite and wide eye and red faced. I acted like nothing had happened and went on with the presentation. The husband look at a wrist watch he wasn't wearing and said they had an urgent appointment and left. It was an embarrassing moment but it is nice to know that there are others that are engaging in chastity. I would like to been a fly on the wall to have heard the conversation when they left the store! I do hope they laughed about it...
It was only embarrassing because you basically turned the interaction from a professional one to a sexual and inappropriate one. You wouldn’t dare comment on any of the wife’s body parts like her breasts or bottom, so why would it be appropriate to comment on her penis that she has assumed control of?
Well, if they are using a reference that is so obvious to somebody else in the know then in my opinion it's fair to make a informed comment!
I think it depends on the connection and the dialogue. To merely comment on a remark made in public would be part of the service, I would think. I am surprised that the guy was that sensitive. If it were me, Mistress, the SA and I would probably have entered into a discussion of spacer size vs comfort and would have loved having found a new person "in the know".
My husband would have done the same thing and said the same thing as you did. The gentleman should have caught that and said something like "which one do you wear"? or, something to that extent. nothing to be embarrassed about! He could have made a friend and already you two have something in common!
Well, if SHE says something like that, my guess is they knew that someday, someone will eventually say a comment about their "lifestyle". So I don't think what you said was inappropriate. They are simply lucky that they found someone who understood the situation