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    I have been actively lurking and have learned a lot. From being a total softie I recently kept my man locked for 6 days! Then I gave in, but progress from giving in at any request. Thanks for all the advice.
     
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    Don’t be afraid to ask questions.
     
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    The important thing with chastity is to tease, tease, tease.... deny, then repeat. Never let your BF know exactly when you'll let him out and cum. He'll be a nice respectful puppy for you if you do this.

    So, after you "gave in", we all hope you put him right back in after 'fun time', yes?
     
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    No I did not. Sorry for the late reply. But I now have him locked. His record is 4 days. But even though I have the only key, I think he may cheat and somehow get out. How can you tell
     
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    A cage with a PA lock is the most secure, u can also change the padlock with one u buy incase he has a copy of the key
     
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    Teasing goes a LONG way!!!
     
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    Teasing goes a LONG way!! If your an active participant, he will want to continue to play and you can expand your play together. If you don't keep his interest ( like my wife didn't) at some point he will say enough either gently and you can reset or he will be really pissed off and that my be the end. If you are doing your part, he won't want to "escape", if not there won't be bars strong enough. Even a PA cage isn't escape proof if you are willing to take your time and destroy the cage.
     
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    @diane49 One of the best things about being in a cage is the unknown.... will she unlock me after teasing? will I get to cum when she does unlock? will she force me to go back into the cage after edging me or willl I get to cum? will she keep me locked longer or shorter than the last time?

    Never let him know when or what you’ll do.... THAT is the ‘key’ for his mind to enjoy Chastity IMHO. The unknown will suck him in.... and make him a toy in you hands. Use that to get what you need... mold him such that his first thought ‘always’ is to ensure that you are pleasured first....
    And enjoy your new found powers!
     
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