Uncaged chastity methods

If I compare my feelings during uncaged chastity and caged, I have always felt much better while caged. The main reason used to be fact I felt chastity device as a symbol (and physical) reminder of her power over me (and my position). Althought I have never considered myself as a chastity device fetishist, this was probably main difference. Interesting thing is that even after the relationship, I still feel somehow more comfortable and more natural while being locked, even without a keyholder.

 

Having someone to report to and also writing about it is very helpful. It gives me an incentive to proof, that I can do it and the feedback is always encouraging. The last time, Princess let me cum (or more precisely, she told me too, I didn't really want to), I really missed being horny all the time afterwards.

@KatyTwilight feel free to ask. I have started a hands-free training yesterday, so Princess can trigger me to cum any time she likes.

@obedient.boy I have initially used an improvised chastity device. It was not secure, but just a reminder for myself to keep my hands away. I still use it sometimes, but now it's more like an additional turn-on for me.

 

What is that in your avatar please @occorics

 

Someone told me, that it's a tower in Italy (I don't remember the name).
I chose it, because a spiral staircase is a frequent theme in hypnosis.

 

oh thank you for telling me. I thougt it was a dungon.

 

@occorics My current biggest issue is not the fact I would be unable to deal with temptation to enjoy myself (and therefore I would feel more secure being locked), but the fact I am somehow overwhelmed by a desire to serve, to be more and more submissive etc. I know some people would see this as just a disguised desire to cum, but I think it is not that simple.

 

@obedient.boy I know that feeling very well. Being denied makes me feel submissive and feeling submissive makes me feel happy. I have some rituals that remind me of my position, like kneeling down and doing my mantra every morning and evening, wearing my collar at home or only using the bathroom on the full hour. But sometimes, I ask myself, if I'm too selfish, when I'm focusing on my arousal so much.
But Princess always assures me, how much it pleases her, when I give up control to her.