Exactly 2 years ago I started my journey into chastity. My KH wife greeted me for total transformation of my personality & also for being a loving, caring husband. In the last 2 years we have been having PIV sex at least once a week. Last night, she declared that today onwards the frequency of PIV sex will gradually reduce to once a month, then once in 2 months and finally 3-4 times a year. However that will not restrict her from having sexual pleasure. I'll have to give her an oral sex at least once a week or whenever she demands. This announcement was so unexpected, that I don't know how to react! All I know is that I dare not oppose what she's proposed. Do you think I'm entering into serious chastity? How should I deal with it? I'm little nervous!!
Sounds like heaven to me! My opinion is that I think, like all aspects of this journey, whatever you do should be consentual.... You sound nervous and unsure.... and afraid.... Talking about it would be good!! Get things out in the open to avoid any resentment that might emerge from your feelings later on down the track.... Win-win is what you BOTH agree on IMHO! Did you ask for this lifestyle...? If so you are getting what you wanted to some extent! If it has been forced upon you then I guess you have no say in the matter regardless!!! With the absolute kindest regards. J.
We are married for 25 years. Till 2 years back, she was submissive & I was dominant! Chastity has exchanged our roles! Ever since she's been holding the key to my cage, she's become the dictator! And I love it! Why I was nervous is because I don't know how will adjust staying locked for weeks and then months! Whenever we talk about me introducing chastity to her, all she says is "you should have been careful what you wished for! Now that you have handed over the control to me, there is no going back!!" I'm nervous, eager & anxious - all at the same time!!
I get what your saying about her upping your lock in period to months it can be scary and exciting all at once. Just like other posters have said you NEED to have that talk on concerns. At the moment we too are at PIV at once a month but its up to her if she wants me inside but after a recent talk i don't think she seems to want me inside any time soon. Last time it was over in 30 seconds and today my KH said her goals are to shorten that time even more and another is to have me Cum while locked in my device. My KH also has goals of a month lock in and then to extend that until there is a real reason to remove the device other than teasing/denial but we will cross that bridge when we get there.