The power of no

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    #26 Aubrie, Jul 3, 2019
    Well said!
     
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    #27 Aubrie, Jul 3, 2019
    I know how that goes and I hope she grows into it! It’s amazing the effect it has on the entire dynamic and attitude of the relationship.
     
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    #28 Aubrie, Jul 3, 2019
    Completely agree
     
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    #29 Aubrie, Jul 3, 2019
    How delicious!!
     
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    #30 Aubrie, Jul 3, 2019
    Beautiful. The hidden pearl of a FLR and chastity.
     
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    #31 Aubrie, Jul 3, 2019
    I’m certain that everyone thinks about it... maybe they just don’t talk about it on a forum thread called “the power of NO” not the power of yes. Start a separate thread instead of being contrary.
     
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    #32 sylvana chastity, Jul 3, 2019
    thanks a lot for all those (sadly enough obviously fruitless) educational efforts on heightening my standards of knowledge, but as much as there won't be such a word as "no" without the existance of "yes", there never could be something called "discussion" without someone being "contrary"!
    But I’m certain that everyone thinks about that... ;)
     
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    #33 Aubrie, Jul 3, 2019
    Hmmm someone likes to throw around multi-syllabic words in the hopes that others are so exhausted with the wordiness of them all, that they just give up and let you have the point. If you want some ‘fruitful’ education, I could breakdown the horrific errors in your grammar, punctuation, syntax, and uncomfortably liberal use of prepositions and conjunctions. There was no previous efforts at education. If you will re-read my post that you quoted, the first line was a contradiction based on my opinion that using an ‘absolute’ term like “no one here” is fallacious. The second line was a suggestion as to WHY you may not have seen a discussion on ‘yes’ in a forum thread about ‘no’. That would be tantamount to entering a forum about fire and then asking why no one is talking about ice. The last line was an imperative statement. No attempts at education;). It would have been more akin to telling you to knock it off in a nice way;). Let me know when you start a thread so I can pop in and play devils advocate for whatever is the opposite of what you are hoping to talk about;)
     
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    #34 Aubrie, Jul 3, 2019
    I like what you did with the winky faces;) I threw a couple in my own retort;)
     
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    #35 My-submission, Sep 7, 2019
    We are very new to this. I got my first resounding "No" two nights ago. It was strict said firmly followed with a look. It took my breath away seeing her dominance shine through in such a way. It was real, sincere and It was enough to put me immediately back in my place. I gave a whispered quivering apology and went to bed.
     
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    #36 aussie_chaste, Sep 8, 2019
    "No." Is a complete sentence.
     
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    #37 Aubrie, Sep 9, 2019
    Love this!!! Fuck it is intoxicating to experience! I especially love if She grabs my chin in Her Hand first pulls my face down close and says it! Nothing stops “me” mode faster and puts me into “Her” mode!
     
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    #38 littlebear78, Sep 9, 2019

    I'm in the same boat as luckyhubby83

    I introduced this lifestyle to our relationship, and thankfully we have both embraced it. However I have had to relinquish my ideas and fantasies, as to how this lifestyle should look. It is my job to educate and inform my wife on different aspects of chastity, flr, femdom, bdsm etc. But I have no say at all in what happens. I am responsible for every chore or task that my wife does not personally enjoy doing, this allows her to feel relaxed and happy and at times super sexy. I have the opportunity to prove myself to her every day and earn her attention. It's a continuous cycle of courtship. With my desire for her unquenchable. This dynamic has made me a much better person in all aspects of my life. It has made my wife and I closer than we thought possible. We both have noticed improvements in our health and fitness, and continue to find our communication skills become more and more refined. It takes an incredible amount of effort to make it all happen, and it is soooooooo worth it. It is our lifestyle now and we are never going back.

    And she has reallllllllllllly embraced the power of the word "NO".

    Her word is final, and I wouldn't have it any other way!
     
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    #39 Kybela, Oct 1, 2019
    I play with the word "No" just because I can, and with a firm voice: this helps to re-establish my authority.
    Or I suspend arguments with a simple gesture of my hand to his mouth saying "Shush!" and he keeps quiet. The beauty of this is that it can be presented in the public so innocently :)
     
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    #40 MRS.Lilith, Oct 1, 2019
    My husband is not allowed to beg. This annoys me, and leads to punishment. He knows not to push his luck.

    I say no strictly when it pleases me, not when he wants me to.
     
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    #41 TheRealAdam, Oct 1, 2019
    No need to beg, you know what I need.
     
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