Texas

Are you serious?

Do you think your ad is effective?

With a state as big as Texas there are plenty of people with your interest. But an ad like that isn’t the way to find them.

A better approach is to get involved in your local kink community. Get involved in other things and make friends. Get involved in discussions and network.

It’s not easy but unlike the millions of ads like yours it works.

 

I’m just north of Houston. Have you looked on fetlife?

 

I lived in rural South West Va and used what I suggested to find a great partner. I also found lots of play partners and made friends that way there.

I’m with you in not wanting to live in a city. I currently live out in the sticks, but am about 25 miles from the nearest city which is a small one. And even here there is a lot going on. What’s funny is hearing people complain that it’s hard to meet others and there’s nothing to do. In the year I’ve lived here I’ve found people to play with and made lots of friends. I haven’t found the primary relationship that I seek, but I’m also not looking very hard either.

The reality is no matter where you are there is always something going on and things to do if you make a little effort. And doing stuff is how you meet people. It’s how you make friends and how you get to know people. It may seem old fashioned but it’s the most effective way IMHO.

As for the post police comment, that was uncalled for, I was trying to help you. You may not like it, but there are tons of ads like yours posted all the time on lots of forums. Go to Fetlife and count. Then count the number of rep,it’s. I’ll give you a hint. The posts are a large number and almost all get no replies. Hence why I offered you some suggestions on how to actually find what your looking for.

So if that offended you, it wasn’t meant to. And your rudeness to me speaks loudly.

I won’t say anything else as it’s clear you don’t want help. So good luck and I sincerely hope you’re one of the few that actually have success with an ad.

 

Honestly, you sounded like an ass in your first reply. That’s how I read it anyways. I also thought his response was restrained and civil.

 

Midland/Odessa area myself

 

I was there recently. Not the most scenic part of the state.

 

Not gonna lie, it’s not

 

I’m guessing work took you there too. Not much other good reasons to go there.

 

Pretty much

 

Hill country south of Austin. Central Texas covers a lot of ground. Could you narrow it down a little?

 

San Antonio. Looks like your ad is working

 

Jimmy Dean once gave the best description of West Texas I have ever read or heard as "The only place in the world where you can stand in mud up to your butt and have dust blowing in your eyes!"

 

Pretty good description. Lol not gonna lie that’s pretty good.

 

Dallas here... I would be interested

 

WTX. Interested.

 

Southern California here but travel to Lubbuck three times a year. I have never been to a like minded social or club. Would love to check it out.