Tentative first steps...

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    #1 Might_Be_Crazy, Aug 21, 2016
    So...

    My wife and I married a little more than two years ago (though we've been together for almost ten years).

    For a while our sex-life has been deteriorating - we've tried various games (chief amongst them with me dominating her - the greatest success was with her wearing some sexy lingerie and getting flogged) but everything has been shortlived.

    One of the main-issues has been my addiction to internet-pornography which has severely limited my interest in sex and in my wife - and I hate that!
    Thus the idea of a chastity belt entered the picture... ;)

    When I broached the idea with my wife, she was... interested. Surprised and confused at chastity-and-denial idea but very interested in her taking the dominate role in our sex-life. That night, we discussed turn-ons and turn-offs, ordered a CB-6000 - and my wife's loving but cruel alter ego, Domina was born... and I was denied orgasm for the first time. Though not intentionally... We were having sex (a first for three-four weeks, actually) and after she came, I kissed her neck and asked if I were allowed to cum.

    She looked a little confused and said that she thought it unfair to deny me on the very first night.

    "No, it'd be hot!" I assured her... and then our four-year old got out of his bed and I climbed off of her, before he came into our bedroom to sleep the rest of the night with us. :p

    Two days later, the CB arrived, and we've been experimenting with ring-size and so on since. I spent all of Friday and Saturday locked up (except for sex Friday night where my wife came twice and I managed to ruin my orgasm in an attempt to not cum :confused:).

    All in all, I must say I'm excited for the journey. In just the short time since we began discussing this, we've taken great steps to fill the intimicy-gap between us that had grown due to my 'needs' being filled with the shallow release that the world of porn so easily provides.

    I want to be better, and I really think this is the only way.
    Also, the way my hearst was beating the first time I was on my knees in front of her, apologising for not obeying a command as well as she'd expected... wow! :D

    Might_Be_Crazy
     
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    Mistress Jules Professional Dominatrix and Owner of Lockit
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    #2 Mistress Jules, Aug 21, 2016
    Welcome to our world, it is amazing just how much it means when you find out you are a dominant female and have a loving partner who embraces the situation. Do keep us up to date on your journey.
     
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    #3 Might_Be_Crazy, Aug 21, 2016
    Thank you, it's exciting to be here. ;)

    And I totally agree. I found her a long time ago, though, we just needed to work out the pecking-order. With me at the bottom, serving her. :p
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    #4 Nicoftime, Aug 22, 2016
    Hello and welcome. I happen to know that masterbation can seem so handy, so immediate, and the porn is whatever you need it to be. Then communication stops, she stops, and a cycle begins where everyone wants sex but no one is actually getting any. If she is willing and liking the idea of being in charge of your sex life, I believe you two are on a new wonderful journey into truly knowing each other. I took the plunge 4 mo the ago, and although I am almost always locked, and don't always cum, I've had more sex, and sexual thoughts the last 4 months than I have my entire life. Good luck to you both.
     
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    #5 richard, Aug 22, 2016
    It sounds like you will be denied for more reason than 1.
     
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    #6 Domina_Mischievous, Aug 22, 2016
    And Domina just went online. Now you better behave! ;)
     
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