Something I would like to see with female led relationships

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    #1 Guest 2922, Jan 23, 2022
    Female led relationships are in many ways a role reversal of the "1950's life", if it becomes more common Id like to see woman as the ones who hit on men. So for example walking around the grocery store a woman sees a guy she finds attractive, goes up to him and makes a move. Rather then the traditional way of men making a move on women.
    I grew up around a lot of bad people and went through lots of emotional abuse, psychological damage, and watched the slow death of my father from cancer between my pre teen to early teen years. All while dealing with a sexist mother who put men down and told me time and again how worthless we are.
    Because of those years I've never been comfortable hitting on women, in person. And I tend to get ignored online, or any responses are pennies on the dollar in terms of what us said back to me.
    Last time I asked a woman out on a date I was a little kid sitting in the shopping cart pushed by my mother, that will likely be the last time too.
     
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    #2 Lovemetal, Jan 23, 2022
    I know what you are saying but I also think you are being a little harsh on yourself.
     
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    #3 Guest 2922, Jan 23, 2022
    If you only knew how harsh people were towards me, until I kicked everyone out of my life that I could
     
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    #4 enslavedbyc, Jan 24, 2022
    Then date exclusively on the Bumble.com app.

    You’re welcome.
     
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    #5 Isopropylforyou, Jan 30, 2022
    You are being WAY too hard in yourself.

    You are allowing what happened to you in the past cloud your future.

    It sounds like your upbringing was rather awful. It sounds like it has made you rather bitter.

    It's good that you kicked all the negative people out of your life, but what did you replace them with?

    No one is an island.

    Be nice to yourself.
    Be kind to yourself.

    Use this Mansion as a place of growth and exploration, as we all have.

    If you would like a Lady to ask you out, what do you have to offer Her so She will initiate first?

    Or what is stopping you from making the first move?

    Something brought you here. What are you looking for?

    Iso.
     
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    #6 madams-sissysub, Jan 31, 2022
    I can relate in part, I never had enough confidence to try to hit on a woman, in fact it was madam who made the move on me when we first met. If she had not, I’m sure I would still be single.
     
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