It was during one of those conversation where the topic wanders it might start off with somehing simple like why di you think so and so in some book or other felt motivated to do whatever and end up being about something 100 times removed from that anyway at one point my Lady posed me what she says are simple challenges she asked me if I could give her 5 reasons why men should be locked and denied and then as she said she was offering me an opportunity give 5 reasons why a man should be allowed to orgasm or for the KHs with a more strict dispostion give 5 reasons why a man should be only allowed erections without orgasm and obviously the obverse of that give 5 reasons why a man should not even be allowed an erection all of which I think are interesting... We would both like to read other people's ideas on these....... so please feel free to knock yourselves out.
Men should be locked and denied... 1.) At first a male should be locked and denied to help reprogram his thinking. 2.) To allow him time to recope his spilled energy in preparation for proper use. 3.) To help him end a very sad addiction. 4.) Locking and denying a male helps them refocus on the importance of being unselfish and a giver rather than only receiving. 5.) Most importantly to “make” him see the errors of his ways and make sure he understands who is truly in charge. Should be allowed an orgasm... 1.) At first should not be allowed one for minimally 30 days. Then allowed one per his ladies allowed method for completing his break in period. 2.) He should be allowed a “RUINED” orgasm as his KH choose as a training method. 3.) He should be allowed an orgasm when he fully pleases his KH and “without” any whining, whimpering, begging or ever asking for one. 4.) He should be allowed one as a gift for his birthday...again only as his KH wishes it to be done. 5.) He should be allowed one as a reward (when decided by his KH) for completing whatever duration of lockup, denial, servitude or whatever his KH feels deems an orgasm. Allowed erection NO orgasm... 1.) A male should be allowed only an erection as a reminder of what has been taken away from him. This can be done as a periodic reminder at the KH’s discretion. 2.) To reward him for excellence in servitude. 3.) To gauge just how built up he is from periods of chastity. (The harder it gets the better) 4.) To be used as his KH desires, to please her as she wishes. 5.) May be allowed as a less rewarding gift for a certain occasion. (An anniversary of some sort)...(Maybe a chastity anniversary) Not even allowed an erection... 1.) To gain maximum control of your slaves mind, body and soul. 2.) To punish him for insolence or for a minor offense of some sort. 3.) To demonstrate complete ownership over him. 4.) To in time break him of all of his will and strip him of his last ounce of (assumes) power and control. 5.) To bring him to his knees making sure he understands just how much control you (KH’s) have over his existence. Of course these are only the ideas and thoughts of a “Chaste Slave” who is HAPPILY OWNED by Madame “E”! I’m hoping she does not get angry with me for partaking in this posting!
This is a interesting post because tonight I have to write my mistress a report on why I should or should not be unlocked. The problem is can only come up with several reasons why I should not be unlocked, and none reason to be unlocked...
Lol, that always seems to be the case! I find there are 10 reasons to be locked to every 1/2 reason to be freed! GUESS the lock stays on!
Control Women need to control us. When we’re locked we behave. We’re kinder, we do as we’re told and we please the women we love. Orgasms cause us to crash then care less about anything. So it’s obvious that we shouldn’t be allowed to orgasm, and in the rare case we are they should be used as part of our training so we’re better servants.
YES...I couldn’t agree more! It’s amazing how much our attitudes change after being allowed and orgasm. So much work goes into getting us “trained” to serve. Then lost within minutes!! Not a productive way of living...just one chaste males opinion of course!