Smaller the cage, the better?

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    This may not be a new topic to the experienced folks here, but I found it fascinating and wanted to share my latest experience.
    My KH (wife) and I partake in chastity, on and off, over the years and I’ve graduated from the cheap cages to the Vice standard —> mini —> micro

    To my utter surprise, the micro is the most comfortable of the lot and from initial impressions, this looks like something I can wear longer term.

    I’m about 6-7 inches erect and this is a revelation. As far as I can tell, I haven’t lost any size. To top it all, my KH insisted it be in the color pink

    I wonder if this isn’t just me that is baffled and/or this is normal.
     
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    I've had the same experience. I have 4 different sizes of the Cherry Keeper. The two smallest are by far the most comfortable, The micro is about 1.5 inches in overall length. Which is about 1 inch shorter than my most flaccid state.
     
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    Certainly seems to be how many feel. I will probably go slightly smaller on my next cage because it’s a recurring theme that guys seem to have a better feel on something that fits a bit snug vs the opposite
     
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    Thanks for the response! Yes, the smallest so far is amazing. A bit of a hit to my ego but my KH asked if there’s room to go smaller lol. Told her my cock is probably not going to fit.
     
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    It does feel like a comforting grip, I did sleep quite well last night, to boot. Win win.
     
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    When I think about the first 'cheap cage' I bought trying to figure it out compared to where I am now I feel like there should be a rule:

    Measure yourself. Decide what size you think would be ideal as your first cage. Reduce all of the measurements:

    • Length by 2/3rds
    • Diameter by half
    • Base ring is more difficult but go at least a size smaller
     
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    Tried other larger sizes since we began chastity. I am now permanently locked in an authentic HTv5 nub and it is the most comfortable for long term wear for me.
     
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    I have a foreskin and i tried the nub, could hardly get it on for my foreskin so i binned it, i guess most of you guys are circumcised, wish you well
     
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    I’m in the same boat as you, I’ve played around with retracing my foreskin and locking up but it inevitably gets undone. I’m now used to it being natural.
    I try to clean more frequently through.

    it’s crazy how now I sometimes forget I’m wearing a cage, just did a bunch of errands and it was like nothing was there.
    Next test will be the gym…
     
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    Snug has always worked better for me and feels more comfortable. We did try a bigger cage at one point, but my wife never liked the look of all the extra room when I was flaccid and it gave me skin movement issues when i would start an erection. Mine is slightly smaller then my length when flaccid and when my wife want to up the teasing she will unlock me so I can put on a macro device.
     
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    Thanks for that! I have similar issues and experience. This small cage is working out really well, it’s been on the longest so far and doesn’t look like it’s coming off anytime soon.
     
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    Not in my case. Being crammed into a too small cage and peeing on my balls is a nightmare. I'm actually going up a little when I go custom.
     
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    I don’t see myself going any smaller than my current cage, it’s somewhere around 2” total length, including the cage, gap and ring. The tube is 40mm so 1.57”.
    My first expensive cage was an MCN adaptus and those tubes are 2.14”, and once I went smaller, the night time erections became so much easier to sleep through, and everything about daily tasks or exercise was much more comfortable.

    I do have one of the cheap Chinese cages that’s basically just a penis head cap, it’s pretty comfortable to wear for the day, but I wouldn’t want to sleep in it.
     
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    I agree on sleep and day time tasks bring so much more comfortable! It’s making me Nick myself for not going this route earlier.
     
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    I think smaller is always better. you shouldn't be "bouncing off the walls" of the cage. It should be snug to tight. The only downside I see to smaller cages is that cleaning without removing is all but impossible. If you have extra room in the cage it's more possible to get in all the nooks and crannies.
     
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    In general, yes. You want it to be a snug/tight as possible without causing pain. That will allow very little room for an erection (or partial erection), which typically causes the most discomfort while locked. I'm in an Evotion Bijou, anchored to a frenum piercing, and it is quite snug. I've been in Evotions 24/7 for almost 7 years.
     
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    Wow, 7 years! On my way there!
     
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    I noticed even a little room, caused movement and got uncomfortable after a few hours. Agreed on the cleaning, I am on a daily cleaning schedule.
     
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    If I don't use the right (larger than most diameter) it hurts more in an unfun way.
     
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    We went through very similar experience, finding the smaller cage & ring allow less movement=less friction=less irritation. Interestingly, the small cage also provides more stimulation as it is constantly constricting, and she loves the bulge she creates behind the ring ;)
     
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    If you are a grower, the best advice is to use as short a cage as possible and with adequate girth so that you can collapse the member down like a collapsable sight glass. This is easier to bare than needing to stuff a large device into your pants.
     
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    I found that partial erections for me are actually painful, because I'm a grower and when my cock starts to expand out, it'll do whatever it takes to make me allow it to go all the way out... If the erection is blocked from the start and there's no expansion, then nothing happens and there's no pain, only frustration from not being able to get hard. So, I'm in process of finding the right micro cage for me. :+1:
     
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    I don't know why I wrote 'bare': Bear!
     
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    For the “growers” in the group, how does having a very small cage effect you when your try and get an erection. My current cage is very snug fitting but definitely could be shortened. When my body attempts an errection the cafe gets pulled very hard. My balls will turn a purplish color and a lot of my penis will end up stiffening behind the cage if that makes sense.
     
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    Definitely smaller and tighter the better I'm currently in a .9 mm micro clitty locker and I can do anything work gym even go swimming but I'm now about to get even smaller .3 mm innie they do‍♂️
     
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