Sleeping in my collar

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    Hi all. My wife is pretty vanilla but does enjoy keeping me locked. Last weekend when she unlocked me for some sport i was ordered to put my collar on after she locked me back up. I was ordered to wear my collar when ever we are in private and every night to bed. Its not a punishment. It acts as another visual reminder of my submission if she cant see her penis. I enjoy it anyway. Anyone else have a similar situation?
     
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    No I don't but I wouldn't mind doing that. There are several things I would like to be forced into when we are alone at home. With a rule that anytime we are alone at home I just have to do it, not wait for her to tell me to.
     
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    No, but if she wanted such a thing, I'd do it.

    I think it's a healthy sign that she wants to do something obvious (i.e. you can't help but notice) with you. I hope you thanked her.
     
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    oh yes, I try to remember to thank her for anything she does to or for me. It has help her become more empowered I think.
     
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    My collar is a symbol of my submission and servitude and acts as a contant reminder of that for me. I love being collared.
     
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    I wear a collar when at home and have tried wearing it at overnight. The ones i have are leather and hot to sleep in, so i usually switch to a chain collar.

    asa
     
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    I wear a collar probably 3 days a month, on the occasions I wear it I almost always sleep in it. It's a blue leather collar and although is quite warm, it is very comfortable for
     
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    We've got one saved in our wishlist. Leather with a D ring to attach a lead to.
     
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    We got mine from an Etsy seller. Unfortunately not available any more as they were based in Russia.
     
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    My wife says when I have one of my collars on I tend to snore more. I guess that makes sense as the collars are fairly snug on me.
     
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    My wife got me a titanium chain that's not-quite-a-choker-but-not-that-long a couple Christmases ago, with a "lock" charm (not an operating lock, but a cute silver charm). She slipped my wedding ring on it too. I'm not "required" to wear it per se, but she does much prefer it when I do. So I'm usually wearing it 24/7 anytime my cage is on ... so like almost always.

    She has attached a leash to the wedding ring a couple times, or even hooked a finger in and that is super hot.
     
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    I did not know about this! It's been awhile since we have talked though, shoot me a message sometime!
     
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    I seem to have become accustomed to sleeping in my collar rather quickly. It does not wake me up at all. It is leather but we sleep with the thermostat low enough it does not get hot. I love putting it on before i give her a kiss goodnight and the coy smile she flashes me. It turns me on.
     
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    Yup, Mrs. fd loves me in a collar. I have this that I always wear, and I wear a leather collar to sleep in as well, unless the kids or something get in the way.
     
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    I have a studded dog collar with a D ring, which has a lead attached so wifey can bring me to heel
     
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    I wear my collar at all times apart from at work, it is a symbol of madams ownership of me.
     
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    I have had to wear my leather collar at all times when I was home with my wife/KH. It hung by our back door. I was allowed to remove it on my way to work (construction) and to put it back on the second I walked through the door.
    Sleeping in a collar with D rings that did rattle a little when I moved, did wake me at times.

    The visual reminder every time I saw myself in a mirror was powerful.
     
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    I do have a collar (pink with sparkling stones) But it's never really worn simply as we have young kids and are rarely left alone.. Life of a parent I'm afraid.

    If she asked for it to be worn, I've no problem but obviously with a polar neck if in public.
     
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    I also have to wear a collar at home in private my wife loves it
     
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    I find sleeping with collars a bit difficult even though I love it very much. When resting my neck on my pillow it is often uncomfortable and it is difficult to sleep well. I have stopped sleeping with steel collars, they put too much pressure on the neck and it is difficult to find a good sleeping position. I prefer sleeping with rather tight (not too tight of course) and narrow leather collars. They fit well on the pillow and they put a mild and comfortable pressure on the neck.
     
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    I wear the collar circumstances permitted,..No kids, no risk of vanilla visitors. she loves it, and I do to.
    It is however to tight to sleep comfortably or without a stiff neck the next morning or when it gets off.
     
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