My Queen and i chose a jailbird for me to wear . That was 5 or 6 years ago, maybe longer . I wore it for as long as 6 months straight with no Orgasm. In time my Queen told me to leave it off because she liked seeing my erection and telling me I was sexually useless , in over a decade of being her sissy bitch , I have never had sex of any kind with her . It was equally stimulating to be erect and her laughing at my pathetic useless cock. Since I had the keys again I often put my cage back on without my Queen knowing . I don't live with her and several times have " ran away " for over a month . I found it so nice being caged , I left it on fior 30 days several times . For some reason I felt more submissive than usual. I was more respectful, and friendly to everyone than normal.. I'm away from my Queen now, but should put my cage back on. I enjoy my everyday life much more when I'm caged ,even though it's me holding the key, and my own little fantasy
I absolutely agree, I’m single, divorced over 10 years and I self lock, it adjusts your psyche.. it’s an amazing feeling, can’t really explain it, but if you know..you know