Shout out to thumper

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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    Someone started a blog 9 years ago about introducing chastity to his wife. His marriage was teetering on the edge, he was from Minnesota, and he thought chastity would help....I thought hey that’s me!

    Although my marriage was too shitty to introduce chastity, I kept reading his blog, and it turned into years. I read about his trials, success and failure, times of kink and times of head colds, and about how to react to the constant battles we all go through.

    His blog is called Denying Thumper on word press. He tracks his time out of the cage, gives reviews on the many devices, and even answers questions. He’s done some vlog interviews on the subject and even has some device makers asking him to review or help with design. Quite a little chastity celebrity!

    He is the main reason for my success. I know what I would have done because I still have it written down somewhere. I would have written down an elaborate contract, filled with demands on how often I get out, how many orgasms, teasing schedules, etc. His trials helped me understand that can’t be the case if I really want her to be in control of it, and to let her do the driving. It would have lasted a month or two before she got bored and didn’t want to do this.

    So now here I am, 9 years later as well, in a fully enforced chastity lifestyle, with the girl of my dreams, and even have a blog and am an active member here.

    Thanks Thumper, here’s to you changing lives, I know he changed mine.
     
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    I loved his blog also. So much good hands on experience from him. Sadly he lost me when he picked up a boyfriend. Not my cup of tea. But either way yes his blog had quite an effect on me also.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    I do not share that interest either, but his journey sparked my own...ps I think that’s over lol
     
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    ah ok. Yeah I havent been back there in quite some time.
     
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    I haven't read the whole thing, but the posts I have read were spot-on. I'm glad there are resources available that are more reality-based (accepting that not everyone's reality will be exactly like he describes).

    This is one of his quotes that I've shared often:

    “Here’s the deal with security: It’s all in your head. It’s best if you consider the CB6K a deterrent to accessing your cock. If you feel you need, for whatever reason, to have absolutely no ability to get to your meat, then the CB-6000 (and probably any trapped-ball designed device) is not for you. In my opinion, the most effective chastity device is between your ears. The CB6K will get you 80-90% of the way there. You have to bring the rest of the equation with you in the form of will-power, self control, and respect for the authority of your keyholder (assuming you have one).” [SOURCE: https://denyingthumper.com/chastity-devices/cb-6000-tips-and-tricks/ ]​
     
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    I also came across his blog when starting out, it was a big help in regards to mechanics of it all. A great blog and a great help in many aspects!
     
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    Panda2010 There's a fine line between pleasure and pain

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    I only became aware of thumper because of @Nicoftime 's original post above. I have had a bit of a look and it seems like he provides some sensible advice (including the bit about no one true way to do chastity).
     
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    Nice post @Nicoftime when I started my own chastity Journey I came here to the Mansion than left for many years. During that time I was very active on Denying Thumpers blog. It's a Classic that is full of good information for anyone interested in the world of Chastity. Thanks for refreshing my memory.
     
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    Thumper was one of resources I and my wife referred to frequently. My avatar was selected, in part, to recognize his role in our early chastity explorations.
     
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    his review of the HTv3 is what convinced me to buy my first CB.
     
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