Chastity has been part of our marriage for 18 months with the last 12 being 24/7, and it all happened so quickly and seamlessly that sometimes I underestimate the huge effect it has had on our relationship and and how important it has become to us both. This was brought home to me very forcefully the other day, when I made the mistake, for the first time, of not locking up as I should have. When I’m unlocked for evening PIV and am lucky enough to be gifted with an orgasm, my wife likes me to stay unlocked for that night on the strict understanding that I lock up again first thing in the morning. However that morning we were both in a rush, I was keen to get on with a home DIY project, and my wife was working at home and had an important conference call. I got started and before I knew it it was mid morning when realised I was still ‘in the wild’! My wife had assumed I was secured, and due to the call didn’t check me as she normally does. I should have been honest and told my wife right there and then, but instead I went upstairs, hid the cage and just carried on working, assuming that I could somehow sort it later, even though my wife always has the key on a chain around her neck. Then to make matters worse my wife stuck her head round the door at one point and asked me if I’d been a good boy and put my cage back on this morning, I lied and said “yes princess”! I was still thinking that it was going to be OK and that I’d be able to get the key somehow and put my cage back on before she realised...big mistake! About an another hour had passed I realised that my wife as standing in the doorway looking at me, and there in her hand was my cage. I looked at her, she looked at me. OMG the way she looked at me. She didn’t shout, she didn’t tell me off, she just stared at me with such a look of disappointment and hurt. That was the moment that it suddenly dawned on me just how important this lifestyle was to my darling wife, and I’d let her down. Eventually after she’d made me squirm and feel ashamed long enough, she quietly gave me the key and the cage and just said “NOW”. I did as I was told and brought the key back to her. She took it and turned her back on me without a word, and didn’t talk to me for the rest of the day; I have never felt so bad. I will never break the rules again as I never want to see that look on my wife’s face again.
If nothing else "they" are masters at crushing us with their disappointment. I think it's one of the first techniques taught them as they become adults. Men yell, women have so many more tools at their disposal
Thank you for your so very complete description of the events. You're very fortunate to be married to a woman who values your chastity as much as she seems to.
Yeah I'm going to echo @HappilyLockedMan and say this is not the worst problem to have. Many would kill to have a wife as invested in the chastity lifestyle as yours. Cheer up and do better next time
Don't ever tell a lie, always be honest if you make a mistake, and take your punishment if thats her sentence. Lies will always come back to you, in my world I get caned. It helps to remember
I don't know why I did lie, we're always really straight and honest with each other, just a blip. Her reaction was enough punishment in this instance, but I know she is now working on a list of possible punishments for any further infractions!!
I don't know how you thought you were going to get away with not wearing your cage and lying about it when she has the key. It seems to me you just didn't want to relock and some of your male arrogance popped up again. Other than masturbating it's hard to think of anything more disrespectful of her control and her status as your keyholder. She should have punished you quite severely.
The disappointed look and silent treatment was probably all you need this time. Don't be surprised if that punishment list includes other infractions as well (etc not cleaning proper as one). Pay extra special attention to your wife/KH she sounds like 1 in a million.