She told her friends!

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Does your Domme tell her friends about your lifestyle?

  1. Yes, and I love it!

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  2. Yes, and I don’t like it.

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  3. I don’t know

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  4. No, but that would be hot!

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    So, my Queen told her friends about the cage. Not at my behest mind you, She is just an open person. The idea of her speaking about something so secret to a friend so openly and my Queen telling me about it is humiliating, but kinda hot. I am a very private person, and having my Queen flaunt something so secret and potentially embarrassing without my consent to other women demonstrates dominance in a way I can’t describe.


    She has told a couple of close friends, and they have done what I assume normal vanilla friends would do and had a laugh and moved on. None of them have ever said anything to me about it... until a few days ago.


    My Queen and I had another couple friend over. Let’s call the female half “M”. The night was uneventful for the most part, dinner and board games. Then suddenly M points at the key on my Queen’s neck and says something about it. “Wow is that the key to your husbands heart?” They both started laugh. M dropped something and made a joke about “servicing” my wife. Then said something along the lines of “As long as she is happy, right?” I picked up my phone to text my Queen and ask what was going on. M snatched the phone off the table and said “Oh, did you just get a text?” Luckily, I didn’t send anything.


    The night progressed. As they were getting ready to leave, M made a big show of telling my Queen how pretty her key necklace was. Then she asked if she could borrow it! This was unexpected, she knows damn well what it is. My Queen laughed and said sure and handed her the necklace. It was damn near impossible to remain cool under the circumstances.


    My Queen and I are monogamous and have no intention of changing that. I am good friends with her husband, and not sexually attracted to M in anyway.


    Because of this, and Ms obvious over the top asking for and taking the key, I thought my Queen was just fucking with me. M and her husband left.


    My Queen and I went to bed. She immediately started laughing. I told her to quit playing. She kept laughing and said she really gave it to her. M was planning to leave it under the doormat, but she didn’t. My Queen laughed about this for about 10 minutes straight and told me she couldn’t unlock me if she wanted to, so stop whining and be a good boy. My Queen said she wanted a nice hard orgasm in the morning, and I was to wake her up with my tongue. She said she would call and get the key from M when she felt like it, or maybe she would make me ask her for it.


    Anyway, I obviously couldn’t sleep. next morning came. I felt like I was going to break the metal. I licked my Queen until She came, then she pulled the key out from under her pillow. M apparently gave it back to her before leaving. The Queen had a good laugh about her little mindfuck. She eventually let me out for some teasing and allowed me to cum later that day.



    The dirtiest little trick my Queen has ever played. Thought you lot would enjoy it.

    I added a poll. What say you
     
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    By the way if my answer is “I don’t know”. She probably does...
     
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    I really can't vote here because the option isn't up there.

    My wife has told one of her close friends about it, but knowing that she felt confident enough to tell someone she trusted was reassuring that she feel good about being my keyholder & having a chastity relationship.
     
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    It would be impossible to capture all the feelings we might feel from something like this. Thanks for sharing!
     
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    My answer is "I don't know, but I doubt it". I think if I could press a button that made her share with a friend, I would press that button, but the idea is a little terrifying, you know? News like that never gets forgotten, and it tends to spread to others.
     
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    That’s my fear. She told me after she shared it, and I didn’t have have an opportunity to act on the fear of “if she tells anyone would it spread”. As long as it is separate from my professional life and my male friends don’t know, the impact is limited for me. It definitely doesn’t get forgotten, but honestly most of her friends aren’t going to care. It’s like girls talking about cock size they remember, but it’s not important enough to share outside of their inner group of friends. IMO
     
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    Although it’s a bit of nul vote and my madam does not have friends outside of the kink community.
     
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    This is indeed of my hottest fantasies right now and i am grateful that my Keyholder Wife made it reality by hinting to several and tellibg at least one Friend about our lifestyle. (You can read the full story here.)

    I probably should be more private, but i'm so glad my Mistress likes this enough to share, that I'm fine with it.

    asa
     
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    Having friends know about my chastity is one thing, but i worry my other kinds, dressing and submission, would leak out too. Maybe if i were more adventurous, i could see it, but not now.
     
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    I could see that
     
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    @Yesmysweetness introduced his poll by guidance of a nice kink story. But what about the question if your better half is discussing your chastity with her best friend and her best friend is your MiL? I think the answers might be a bit different then….
     
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    Well, that would be great if your Mistress sent you to her friend to ask her for the key :).
     
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    In my fantasies, yes I want her to tell her best mate. In real life it would probably be a no
     
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    I am sure she hasn't told anyone, BUT years ago, she did tell her sister that I masturbate. I heard her on the phone, she thought I was outside. She wasn't really complaining, but told her I masturbate. I don't think my sister inlaw has looked at me the same.
     
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    Now she can tell her that you can't
     
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    I totally agree assuming MiL means something connected to your life professionally or in a deeper personal way. A lot of folks don’t really know or spend time with their spouses friends so it doesn’t matter, but my answer would change if I worked with her or something 100%
     
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    In my deepest hidden fantasies I would absolutely wish she would but in real life: definitely not.
     
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    If her friend was not really connected to me, it’s not so bad, but I couldn’t imagine it if the friend was involved in other aspects of my life.
     
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    My FWB has told her closest friends. So they know that I’ve been locked for a month with FWB having the key. They also know that I crossdress for her. And they know that our sex is only strapon and me giving her oral.

    What I don’t know is if she’s told them that I also clean her up after she sees her lovers. I say that as she hasn’t said she told them it, but I’m pretty sure she has as she tells them everything and enjoys it.
     
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    wow! Has that had any sort of impact on you or is it just girl talk between FWB and her friends in a way that doesn’t affect you?
     
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    I told my best friend about it and she was quite taken aback (she's very very very vanilla in that regard) but I think it got her thinking. :)
     
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    Haha. I assumed most girls would bring it up to close friends in girl talk, but it wouldn’t be a big enough deal or appropriate to bring up to the guy (like talking about dick size or other aspects of sex lives).
     
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    Well in the FWB relationship it’s made me want to experience more humiliation. And it puts me deeper into a submissive mindset. So much so the last time I fucked her I felt bad and not worthy.

    I guess it’s just part of the evolution.

    I guess thinking about the fantasy thread of things that probably won’t happen, I’d love to Be fucked by her while one of her friends watch. Since they’re pretty vanilla I doubt it’ll happen. As she says they live their fantasy’s vicariously through her.
     
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    Yeah apparently some guys are into it lol
     
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