She told her friends!

doesnt it just, though?

 

My friend was very confused by the idea of a man putting a woman's orgasm ahead of his. Apparently, that has never been her experience. And I have to admit that the idea of sharing my locked man with her is appealing to some extent, provided I don't end up missing out later on.

@asimpleman23 - exactly. Where's the guarantee that the information recipient isn't in the same (metal/plastic) predicament as the information originator?

 

one seeks commitment over guarantee, perhaps?

magnanimity, at very least...!

 

That was very nice of her. Now you have no secrets.

 

I chose the only thing close. I know my Mistress would not tell most of her friends but i know there are a few that know not just about the cage but also i am a sissy

 

My Mistress has never been less than open about our relationship and the cage. All of her friends and most of her family know. Some are intrigued and ask questions, some are not interested.

 

I think this is a key message that women with men wanting a FLR need to understand. It is understandable that most women are not used to this idea. I don't feel I have been able to communicate this to my wife.

 

what is important here, to me, is that She knows Control is entrusted to Her.

how and to whom She communicates that confidence is at Her discretion.

...one rather likes it that way. non? : )~

 

That is incredibly hot! And humiliating to a locked up sub. About five years ago, my wife told one of her closest friends, gave her the key, and said "don't give it back to me unless he shows it to you." Long story short, I did have to and this has been a teasing/humiliating 3-way conversation ever since. Her friend's husband is still totally unaware of their secret.

 

Be careful what you wish for! I hae learned that our little "secrets" (My CDing and Chastity) cannot be kept secret when "girl talk" ensues. Mistress told Her sister and She told her hubby and another friend and I now feel like the whole world knows. It is pretty humiliating for me. I have come to enjoy the way my SIL treats me and talks to me, but the others just look at me differently and have said nothing - yet! Once that cork is out of the bottle........

 

Totally agree. But when we are together with this couple, my wife's friend always seems to find an opportunity to catch me alone in the kitchen or outside on the patio, make this gesture, and smirk!

 

A Mistress is going to be a Mistress, which means teasing is just part of the terrain. Just enjoy that She made that decision and that She is so confident in Her role, She will discuss it with O/others and have some fun with you.

 

Love that! My kind of mind fuck.

I did something similar to a female submissive once. But this forum isn't the place for such stories.

 

That was my biggest fear whenever i opened up about my desire to dress or be kinky. That it would be shared with others and get out of my control. This was way before chastity play.

 

This is an interesting aspect of all of this. I'm totally focused on her. It's all about her needs, her pleasure and her satisfaction and I happily come second (if at all pun intended).

I have become a much better lover because instead of being focused on getting off, I am focused on pleasuring her in as many ways that I can. Be it morning coffee, folding laundry, making dinner, or bringing her to orgasm several times in an evening, I love to please her and get my biggest satisfaction from that.

We are private in regards to our friends and family. Little bits have eeked out like how her needs always come first. I dont mind as it does push my subby state deeper. She never publicly humiliates me (humiliation in public is another thing) and for that I am appreciative.

We know other couples who are having issues...well the women are cause their guys are not taking care of them. They often complain to M about this. I often laugh with her and suggest jokingly that she tell them the solution.

 

Sometimes I even feel myself a need to share this, as I can see that the things where we are talking about here and carefully discovered with our better halves can be so helpful to others as well...

 

My Queen told he best friend and I was horrified but after the shock sank in it started to feel quite sexy and I started to ask questions about what was her reaction etc.
Turns out she would love to cage her boyfriend as he is not very attentive to her or his child. And she has issues with him "cheating" by looking at porn. But she also said he would never go for it

 

Quite often my Queen and I will hear all the tales of woe from her female friends and just exchange a look and afterwards as I'm cleaning up after them my Queen will say something like "do you think a cage for Tania's hubby would solve all her problems" I just laugh and say "probably"

 

Well I cant answer yet. Today my wife told me to order a realy short maid dress that I'm supposed to wear at her small dinner with her two best friends. I will cock and serve with my cage and plug impossible to hide. Then they will know for sure!

 

If this happens please post and let us know how it goes. I know I’d love to hear about it and I’m sure others would too.

 

Of course I will tell you all, the dinner will take place in 2.5 weeks if we are well and I have my new maid dress. Otherwise my wife said I be working totaly nude, just panties and bra when they arrive and then they will be taken of before dinner. So I will be displayed anyway.

 

I also can’t answer the poll, not enough choices. My wife has told or showed me to several of her friends and shortly after the husband or the significant other was also placed in chastity. She doesn’t just blab it to everyone, she is very selective on her choices.

there was also the male client my wife brought to home one evening after a business meeting and then had me strip after dinner. The evening did not turn out as I thought it was going, he was doing research on his new book and loosely based a set of characters on our lifestyle. Now after he flies in for business and for my wife to review his business interests, he and I go out for a few beers and he picks my brain for his characters.