A couple of years ago I downloaded a book called She Comes First, it was an excellent instruction book of about 130 pages instructing on how to best arouse your Lady when going down on her . It has drawings and mentions things I has newer dreamed of . Since downloading it back then ,it has gotten lost or deleted , so I googled it the other day and there is a free pdf version I downloaded . Not wanting to be sitting here at my pc reading 120 pages I also ordered the book from Amazon.ca ( I'm in Canada).and for less than $20 is arriving in a day or 2. I plan on keeping it in my car to read as I'm waiting for my Queen as she shops with her sister ,or goes for breakfast . I very highly recommend this book as compulsory reading for any one wishing to give the Lady in charge the best she can receive .