So I was caged the first time by my mistress for 4 days. It was suppose to be 5 but I failed and I'm being punished for my disobedience. I know this is different for everyone but I'm curious what all of you more experienced Mistresses/subs think a good amount of time is for my second lock up? All comments are much appreciated. I'm a horny constant stroker with an urge to swallow up my mess until I actually cum, so my mistress has been training me to become a better cum swallowing sissy.
Mistress B is always wise and CORRECT. No less then 6 weeks, but i was leaning towards 6 months myself.
6 weeks is far too long for a second lock up, Did you lock your sub for 6 weeks on his second lock up?
Far too long? It's around 1 month and half. I know it may vary from subbie to subbie but I don't see why it can't be achieved. I had the cb6ks cage on my maid when we started her chastity and very soon found out that it needed to be removed every few days for cleaning, but apart from that it was on at least 6 weeks.
As a Moderator you should be a little more careful with off the cuff advice. How you can say 6 weeks for a second lock up is normal is beyond me. Even with the removal every few days that you added in a later post its still a big ask for a second lockup. To tell a new sub or a new couple 6 weeks is the recommended time for a second lockup id irresponsible. From this @Gianni Smith 6 weeks. Any less has little effect. To this Far too long? It's around 1 month and half. I know it may vary from subbie to subbie but I don't see why it can't be achieved. I had the cb6ks cage on my maid when we started her chastity and very soon found out that it needed to be removed every few days for cleaning, but apart from that it was on at least 6 weeks. I still think you are wrong about the 6 weeks at least you are now saying with breaks every few days. My first lockup was 3 days if I was told the next one would be 6 weeks my chastity would have been over before it begun. Please try and remember it’s very easy to advice 6 weeks it’s not as easy to endure it. I seem to remember you said in a post your subbie does not wear her CB when out of the house. Was that after the second lockup of 6 weeks?
Lockit is exactly right. You need to work up to that gradually. 6 weeks when you're not used to it can cause all manner of complications both physical and relationship wise. You may jeopardise your future enjoyment for both parties.
I've heard 3 months for the 1st lock up! I'm sure as long as the device is working fine with no issues, how long doesnt really matter. The KH is in charge, correct?
@lockit Thank you so much for your opinions on my moderating skills. Any Mistress, or Master for that matter, would be highly irresponsible to not check on their caged sub at regular intervals for signs of both physical and mental problems. If any occur then the cage would be removed. I take it that Gianni Smith has a mind of her own and if she feels that 6 weeks is impossible then she can obviously ignore my comment. My original comment may seem harsh but short periods of chastity are just for amusement imo. Thank you Amanda for your kind support.
@mistressB I am in support of such a long lock up early on in the proceedings so yes I am in support of what you said. I just prefer that he's ready for it in order that it doesn't end in disappointment because of some chaffing issue or other.
I believe that @Mistress B 's recommendation was for the change in mindset to set in. If you want to experience the submission boost you have to go more than a few days. If it is going to be all about her, and You to surrender completely, a few days is not going to get You there... I'm speaking from personal experience! Of course all responsible participants in this lifestyle need to keep a close eye on the conditions of the boy bits, especially in the start up phase. Adjustments to the device may be needed. Maybe even an exchange of device. Cleaning becomes a very important task too. Of course!
You need to be gradually adjusted to your device and trained not to expect the freedom to masturbate anymore so my advice is slowly adjust your cage or change the device to a model that you are happy to wear 24/7 with little discomfort. When you get to this stage start out being locked for 2 days for the first part of your conditioning then let out to clean and adjust then you should be put back in for another 2 days and repete this for about 1-2 weeks to get you into a routine. Then extend the period caged to 3 days then 1 week at a time until you can tollerate being caged 24/7 x 7 this may take 4-6 weeks training. Once you are at this stage you should be ready for a 10 day lock up period with release for cleaning and relocking for another 10 days. At this point you should be very horny but have a reduced tendency to want to masturbate. As a reward for your co operation you should be allowed to masturbate yourself and then put back in your cage for a further 5-10 days. Remember mistress is training you to wear your cage as normal that should be her end game so you are locked 24/7 until she allows you release but to get to this stage could take a few months.
Working into it at your own pace, but testing your limits and trying longer periods. At first I had terrible chafing problems and had to keep removing it, but as I found a device that would work well for me and the right lubricants, things are going much better, and now I'm locked for a week at a time with only 15 minutes allowed for removal and cleaning (no orgasm!) and then back on for another week. Once the MM WWatchful Mistress that my gf/Mistress has ordered for me arrives, the goal is for me to be locked 24/7/365 until we're married. Obviously there will be a slight adjustment period, as it will have the anti-pullout feature, but soon the only reason I'll be let out is MAYBE for a visit to the doctor.
Heartily agree. When I first started I had some nasty chafing problems, but as the right device was found, and agreeable lubricants, longer term lockups became possible. And preferred. The device I have now rusts inside the tip, so a removal once a week for cleaning (not to exceed 15 minutes and without orgasm) is permitted. When the new MM device my gf/Mistress has ordered for me arrives, her goal is to have me locked up 24/7/365 until we're married. She got the anti-pullout option, so after I've adjusted to that, my only possible hope for being released other than marrying her is MAYBE a doctor visit. And we both have some things to take care of before we CAN get married, so I'm looking at a decently long sentence of probably several months. But I started out just a few days at a time. So do what works best for you and your Mistress, but definitely try to challenge your limits without going TOO far, so it doesn't end in disappointment, as Ms. Amanda said.