My partner is being kept in a HT v3 nub. The issue I'm having is that her 2nd biggest ring is still big enough for her testes to slip out of, but the next ring down is small enough to hurt. It's not a lot of pain, but it's not comfortable. Should we do small stints in the smaller ring to build up tolerance?
It takes awhile to get used to wearing a chastity device! It took me months before I could wear a device 24/7. Be sure your partner uses plenty of lube as well! Think back on your own experiences on wearing a device! I am sure that eventually you will have success!
Thanks for the advice. I never really had the issue. I mean it hurt when I started wearing them, but I never wore a really tight ring. I'm just concerned for her.
I Wear a pretty tight ring, from my experience, I will offer that It may be possible that Her discomfort is caused by either insufficient lubrication, or a full bladder. ...either will wake me from a dead sleep.
Hi Rachel, In my experience, the tighter the base ring the better. It should be very difficult to get on, and once on there should be barely enough room to slip the tip of the little finger underneath. But obviously not so tight as to cut off blood circulation. If your partner's balls can slip out, the ring is definitely too large. For first timers in a long-term lockup it is normal to experience discomfort, even sometimes some pain. Keeping things well lubricated with Vaseline or other long-lasting lubricant will help. In time the discomfort will diminish, and lubrication will no longer be needed. You ask about doing smaller stints in the tighter ring. Personally, I think if you intend to break your partner into wearing a cage it is best to put the tight ring on and leave it. It will take some getting used to, maybe a couple of weeks during which time discomfort and some pain will be experienced, but eventually it will become comfortable. Doing smaller stints spaced apart accomplishes little, it just starts the "breaking in" process all over again each time.