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    Although not specifically about FLRs, I recommend Princess Kali's book Authentic Kink http://www.authentickink.com/

    It's a workbook designed to help you clarify your own kinky desires and better communicate those desires to your partner. It's been a great help in my own relationships.
     
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    Thank you @Houseboy42 I will take a look.

    @Xileh, Currently reading Rika. It's very good.
     
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    Thank you. Very interesting.
     
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    Thank you. At this rate I'm going to have a masters degree in FLR, Chastity and D/s relationships. Just like Rika said.

    That will be the last one then. I think I've raced far too far ahead.
     
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    I'm reading Rika's book now. It's a super short read so it won't take long.

    Some of her ideas are thought-provoking, and others I find a bit hypocritical. For example- she's quite right about initiation of sex adventures to be a mutual task by both genders in the couple. But she also criticizes repeatedly 'modern femdom' as being strictly driven by 'male consumers of porn'. This is in a book that then lays out her version of femdom strictly driven by her female viewpoint. There seems to be more room for an egalitarian approach somewhere, and I think that's in the whole 'gentle femdom' movement (see the subreddit by the same name for more about that). My wife and I certainly fall somewhere between gentle femdom and a mild version of Rika's approach.

    All in all the book is well-written and certainly provides some good ideas for anyone in a D/s relationship. I do recommend it overall.
     
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