I am interested in the "real" lives of those of us who's KH's and Mistress/Owner's are their wives. The challenges of a D/s relationship in marriage are many. Add in children, jobs, other family, housework, school, etc. and the fetish and sexual aspects of the relationship often must take a backseat, sometimes for long periods. Over the last 18 years or so of D/s play between my Wife/Owner Mary and I, this has been one of the biggest challenges. We have 18 year old twins and a nine year old, all boys. After many years of D/s "play" we had the usual bumps in our marriage and my Wife grew weary of just being in control during play time. She wanted 24/7 obedience and my committment to an Owner/slave relationship for the rest of our days. Because I was born for such a relationship, I readily agreed. It was then that she discovered the use of chastity to increase submission and obedience. The CB3000 remains the only D/s "toy" that became a real tool and a 24/7 part of our everyday lives (well, there are a few dildoes she likes under the bed). I have had great difficulty living up to the 24/7 chaste/submissive role and it is still very much a work in progress. Obedience is the mantra I have been given and nothing helps more than being locked in chastity, which is why I am currently locked 24/7. We have abandoned all but a few of our extensive selection of B&D toys and moved much more into a service oriented type of play. All the topping from the bottom has been "trained" out of me. After all how can a Goddess be truly served and worshipped if the slave is bound? My role has become that of a sissy servant responsible for pleasing my Mistress in all ways. I pamper and worship Her feet, her breasts, and of course her pussy. I wait on her in every way while wearing a maids uniform or posing in different lingerie, heels, makeup, etc. She often takes pictures for her later amusement. I am never allowed out of the CB3000 during play. I'm not really sure how we got into making me a sissy, for years we never did any crossdressing... it seems to have been a natural progression of what we both liked. Lately, She has taken quite a liking to a large 8" dildo that she has me use on her with a strap-on harness. For the first time in our relationship I am no longer allowed to penetrate Her at all, not even for my bi-weekly release, rather I must jack off while sucking her toes. Through a lot of work and frustration, our marriage and our D/s relationship have matured, solidified and gotten stronger. Mary has embraced her dominance and realized the power she has to the point that in the last few years she has become comfortable cuckolding me and expressing her desire to engage dominant bulls not only for her pleasure, but for her to watch while her sissy gets used and humilliated. What's your real life story?