Question about frustration.

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    Hello,I decided to restart my chastity after a break and some fixes needed to the belt.I'm on my day 8th and enjoy some moments of arousal and frustration,it feels like like a small orgasm,will it increase or fall eventually?Sometimes it feels like the feeling before u cum but not hard enough to achieve orgasm,I enjoy it a lot.Are there any positives in wearing chastity belt longer if u seek to increase this sensation?
     
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    The frustration comes and goes, quite inexplicably. You go for days without thinking about it and then, for no reason, it becomes excruciating. Then it's okay again. And repeat....
     
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    At the beginning, I was experiencing leaks along with what felt like a ruined orgasm. These leaks have subsided, perhaps because my wife unlocks me weekly to have ejaculations (usually ruined orgasms). However, as Lester writes, periods of frustration still come and go, even after six months of being caged in my case.
     
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    As usual, @LesterBallard is correct ! Frustration is a crucial part of the helplessness you will feel. Actually, I think that chastity is more about those kind of feelings than it is about the physical lockup. They serve to keep us focused on our Mistress or KH. What could be better?
     
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    perfectly put!
     
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    @LesterBallard is absolutely right. Sometimes after days of feeling "normal" I feel really horny and frustrated for no apparent reason.
     
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    The longer I go, the more I think about it. The more I think about it, the more frustrated I am. The more frustrated I am, the better the feeling when KH denies me. Remembering the end result gets me through the day.
     
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