Pullout question....

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    I am looking on people's take on pullout.
    We know pullout with a CB device is an issue and there really is no holy grail without piercings or full belts. With enough soap/water pullout can happen.
    My question is
    What are your feelings about being able to pullout, but not able to get back in without notice by the keyholder?

    I think I have a solution but it's still in testing.
     
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    I think the answer is dependant on the involvement of your KH. Is she/he going to be observant enough that you wouldn't be able to get away with it?
     
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    If you are going to pull out then don't do chastity cages at all. What's the point. Man up and find some self-control.

    Getting back in is also easy. Just use the nylon pull through method. You can do minor adjustments with q-tips or something if necessary.
     
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    Interesting topic. Why are there locks on chastity devices if it all an honor system in the end? If we were presented with a chastity device with a lock, or one with a button snap in place of the lock, which would most likely be chosen and why?
     
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    Williebdenied. I guess your right. Chastity is just a game in the end and is not right for me.
     
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    If men have that kind of self control them there is no point in a locking chastity device, some people have amusing ideas ?.
     
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    There’s a reason all of the bondage restraints in the house have locks and the device I where is secured with a PA pin. My wife insists on control and doesn’t care at all about self control. To each their own.
     
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    The lock is a symbolic measure.. and the key is put away out of reach and it takes a certain considerable effort to retrieve it. My wife doesnt dangle the key over her neck. She leaves it over at the dressing table. If i would, i could easily pull out by squeezing the balls off the ring, wank off quickly and relock back easily. But why would i? Being locked at the dick is not only physically imposed, but in mind too. If i want to cheat, i can. Imagine the huge elephant in circus, being restrained by the tiny roll of chain. Im sure with a flick of its leg, it will break free. But it doesnt want to.
     
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    #9 WillieBDenied, Aug 6, 2022
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    Sure there is: the way it looks, the way it feels, the symbolism, the discomfort of the caged erection, the embarrassment of wearing it, the prevention of a full and satisfying erection, the "doing what your told", etc... some people have no idea.
     
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    I am striving for a "permanent unless given permission" type of setup but I do not think this is realistic. Hygiene, travel, accidental pullout/ball escape are all possible and the cost to prevent those is just too high and probably futile. If you want to pull out, you will depending on your willingness to suffer. Hygiene can be dealt with to some degree but with warm weather and humidity, skin may chafe, urine will stink etc. Yes I know there are guys who seem to be caged 24/7/365 and I'm happy for them but I don't see this possible for me even with a custom cage.

    So the "mental cage" needs to be installed too. I *want* to remain caged. I take means to do so. It's a challenge. There will be consequences if an accident happens, I don't want the consequences.

    I don't know how easy putting the cage back on without the key is. I never thought of that. Is it really possible? If that is, does it mean the cage was too loose to start with?
     
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    I think for every guy (and his KH), the question is different. For me and my wife, security is important. Knowing that there is very, very little chance I could escape, pleasure myself, and get back into deice without being caught is an assurance to her. It also helps me feel safe from cravings which can overpower the logical part of my brain, especially after so many years of giving in.

    Also, the thought of getting caught knowing that she would be devastated if I cheated is a powerful incentive. Before this, she NEVER knew I was masturbating; not a clue!

    There are nights I awake with a raging attempt at an erection that make me glad I can't easily defeat this thing. Certainly, the cage accentuates that craving. But I don't know if I could resist without the help of my Guardian to keep me pure.
     
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    Try a spiked device, you won’t be pulling out then!
     
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    Until there is a better solution don't pull out. Chastity is a preventive not a cure
     
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    I spent 15 dollars and made my cage pull out impossible
    A front plate attached to top of cage that rests on abdomen, a waist chain, 2 padlocks some rubber for plate edges
    Took 1 hour to make

    Wife knows I can't pull out
    I know I can't
    Cutting it off is not an option as she would know

    So I have effective chastity
    I can come only with magic wand


    And she has hIdden it

    I gave her control and she 100 percent has it

    It's 70 days since last in cage ruin
    8 months since last out of cage orgasm
    Permanent chastity can be done just think creatively

    Ps I have no smell issues either
     
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    Good for you.. nothing is like a chaste and nice smelling man.. there should be a competition for houdini-proof chastity device instead of tiny penis competition since everyone’s penis is already tiny.
     
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    I've got a respectably sized flaccid cock (3.75") and I'm very snug in a CB6000s. Using a 44mm ring which is quite tight on me and the smallest spacer. If I tried to pull out I think it would be very painful and unlikely I'd get back in. I guess if I was in permanent denial I may try out of desperation, but that's not our dynamic. I know my KH will let me cum eventually and it will be mindblowing, so that keeps me honest and motivated.
     
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    I have pulled out and made myself cum in the past. The let down and the putting it back in after the let down or sub drop is why I don't do it. Even when my KH uses me for piv, I hate putting the cage back on. Another thing to consider is that even if you can't pullout of the device, you can put a vibrator against it to make yourself cum. But then you are stuck not being horny with a cage on your penis. It sucks for at least a day.
    My wife can usually tell when I have an orgasm anyway.
     
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    I would like to get a belt, please advise if you have experience with one
     
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    Any solutions people? I mean, rather than judgements, something pratical other than a PA?
     
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    SMaller cake, uretral insert, or piercing
     
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    Oh well if people want to pretend to be locked in chastity who am I to judge, someone is having a laugh ?. just who.
     
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